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2023.05.30 13:03 Historical-Photo9646 Celebrities like Ariana Grande and Kim Kardashian might be making it harder for mixed people
Obviously this is just my opinion, but I really think the trend of celebrities trying to look mixed/racially ambiguous, particularly like light skinned black women and/or “Latina” is making it harder for mixed people.
Of course people have the right to do whatever they want to their bodies, but I find myself so frustrated with the Ariana grande’s of the world who try so hard to look racially ambiguous that people are shocked to realize she’s actually white. And now that she’s done with looking brown/black because Kpop is all the range, she’s on to looking Asian! A true racial chameleon, if you will.
That’s not even the get into the appropriation a lot these celebrities do. Just to be clear, there’s inspiration and cultural appreciation, and then there’s appropriation.
I think an outcome of this is that what it means to look “white” is shifting towards being light skinned brown with more ambiguous features. And for actual mixed people and light skinned monoracial people, it might make it harder for people to really believe we are who are say we are. I wonder if this is leading to more fetishization of mixed people as well.
Let me know what you think. I haven’t fully formed an opinion on this, but either way, it bothers me a lot. I was talking to mixed friend who’s Japanese and Dominican and she was also pissed about this, particularly at Ariana as well.
submitted by Historical-Photo9646 to mixedrace [link] [comments]
Of course people have the right to do whatever they want to their bodies, but I find myself so frustrated with the Ariana grande’s of the world who try so hard to look racially ambiguous that people are shocked to realize she’s actually white. And now that she’s done with looking brown/black because Kpop is all the range, she’s on to looking Asian! A true racial chameleon, if you will.
That’s not even the get into the appropriation a lot these celebrities do. Just to be clear, there’s inspiration and cultural appreciation, and then there’s appropriation.
I think an outcome of this is that what it means to look “white” is shifting towards being light skinned brown with more ambiguous features. And for actual mixed people and light skinned monoracial people, it might make it harder for people to really believe we are who are say we are. I wonder if this is leading to more fetishization of mixed people as well.
Let me know what you think. I haven’t fully formed an opinion on this, but either way, it bothers me a lot. I was talking to mixed friend who’s Japanese and Dominican and she was also pissed about this, particularly at Ariana as well.
2023.05.30 13:03 LlamaFromLima Toddler Bored in Yes Space
My daughter is 18 months and going through developmentally appropriate tantrums. A common piece of advice is that toddlers hear no a lot, so create a yes space where they can do whatever they want. My husband and I child proofed our living room. We have a Pikler triangle and foam climbing blocks. We do toy rotation. My daughter is still bored in the yes space. She wants to go explore the rest of the house. She’ll stand at the baby gate and cry. The only yes spaces she really enjoys are playgrounds. We try to be outside as much as possible, but there are limits.
There are roughly a billion gentle parenting techniques that people recommend. None of them work. All I can do is put a hand on her back to reassure her that I’m there and tell her I get frustrated when I don’t get what I want too while she has a meltdown because I won’t let her play with knives. Then she’s happy and acting like it never happened. I feel like all I can do is wait out this phase until her communication skills improve.
Does anyone else feel like they’re in the same boat?
submitted by LlamaFromLima to toddlers [link] [comments]
There are roughly a billion gentle parenting techniques that people recommend. None of them work. All I can do is put a hand on her back to reassure her that I’m there and tell her I get frustrated when I don’t get what I want too while she has a meltdown because I won’t let her play with knives. Then she’s happy and acting like it never happened. I feel like all I can do is wait out this phase until her communication skills improve.
Does anyone else feel like they’re in the same boat?
2023.05.30 13:03 idontevenker2 Just got homecoming... How to get 3rd floor ?
It's nighttime right now btw. How do I get the third floor ?
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2023.05.30 13:03 OkGap5167 hanging from the roof of the sky
Oh, my beloved's wonderfully beautiful house, we found it empty
From humans, even from empty ghosts
Where did they leave and where did they go?
There is no one here
Even ask him about them except the remnants of their stuff
I stood by their hearth and the ashes of their fire
Maybe they will answer my question
But she is deaf even if she speaks to them with signs
Dumb don't speak and don't care about my condition
I turned around, towards my sweetheart's room
And water them with pure tears
Harsh does not understand the lover's words
They are like envious hearts
The soul is desperate here
around his house
I call out loud why the beloved changed his home
How do I find my soul mate?
And circuits I can't cheat on
I can't help it
I sat watching and the spectrum came waving to me
Like a mirage, I see it and it has no shadow
Shows its color and body
But I saw her braid when I took off her veil
I stood up to him and he approached me and greeted him
Hello, hello, where are you my dear
How can you leave me without a mark, my love?
You are my world and all my life
She looked at me with eyes that were gazelles
Tears fell like a string of pearls and overflowed
She said: Don't blame me for a moment
I have never paid attention to others, and the heart has no entrance to others
Be patient, may God have mercy on you
And after the distance that was between us, you will feel close to my arrival
I told her that my patience ran out and my life
What's my trick, it's been a long time to leave you?
And you're in my heart, how could you not know that?
And the fire in my heart burns and glows
My eyes do not rest for an hour at night
-
Tell me when the darkness of the night will pass
Then she looked at the Southern Star and offered him sympathy
Because he is also a lover
And I said, O Star of the South, there you are, like me
This chandelier faces north
My love also left our homes
Don't blame me, spectrum, she's my love
After her, I feel the spirit rising
He smiled sweetly about the eight pearls
They emit a glow and scatter their mirages high
And his spectrum disappeared from the moment of my eyes
He missed his imagination and got carried away a lot
I stood up to say something that crossed my mind
A dream my eyes saw or something I imagined for me
I wiped my eyes and saw nothing but those remnants of their belongings
And the dust hid under it everything they left
I cried and cried knowing that crying does not work
But crying over him sometimes lightens the burden for me
I walked with my eyes behind her whims
And the eye hopes to see it again
And every step I take, the heart wants her home
So that his house became shady, warm and cool
And if a vile or envious person passes me by, he will blame me
They said compensation or someone else's role in place of your lover
I nodded and didn't want to talk to him
until he leaves
He thinks I'm crazy
He doesn't know how much I love Sarah
She is life, soul and all my hopes
Sarah, my life and death without her
I don't care if I see her with blood on my clothes
They mentioned that she lives in the winter in the desert
The desert is very wide
From Dumat Al-Jandal to the North Mountains
From the Jordan Junction in the south to Wadi Ramadi
As for the country of Raqqa, its sun shines with heat
My dear brother: whenever I see lightning, I am happy
At Kohla I said lightning makes me happy
My dear brother: When my chest gets tired of my world
I sing in a sad voice of my fears
I'm still young, but my hair has turned white
I don't know why luck has become a sieve
Even my buddies. They started to move away from me
And when I come to them, they don't care about me
Maybe I think when their minds are petty
-
I have never been stingy. I disobey myself if you ask me to
They shorten the words of benefit so that I do not hear
Their love for my enemy became more
Solitude has become more beautiful and delicious in the wilderness
And I answered his wolf and howled over the hills
I said to him: O wolf, your voice comforts me
Come close to me, you are my friend
You left behind your loved ones and so did I
And your worries and fears have a loud voice
Our loved ones are having a good winter in this beautiful country
May they be healthy and their country fertile
When they get close, good news for you
I will give you from God's gifts of elite what I have
You and I made a vow of purity and purity
And what we wish for you is my hope
Let you play with deer and antelope
And drink water after thirst from pure water
Even your fangs are beautiful, don't eat carrion with them
And do not snipe from the weak catch
-
And what do you say about the days that reverse the trend?
Bad days, cutting chains and cables
His ribs trembled and his chest ached
His voice echoed from the countryside and hills
And the wild pigeons heard the echo of my complaint to the wolf
Then the pigeons wailed from a thin tree branch
Birds of prey fluttered to him
Even the broken winged one took pity on me
Then the birds migrated south and rose into the sky
Even the slender bird has become a migratory
They returned after about a year and then went to Russia
They want a spring and drink earthquake water
They said we saw him a year ago
This is a wolf companion in an empty nomadic wilderness
It tolerates heat and winter frosts
He only wears shabby clothes
Then the birds headed with the liver of the sky towards the star of Capricorn
After we cut my heart
Death has become with my life together
I think death is more beautiful than life
-
He did not despair of the mercy of the living God who never sleeps
He is a surety if he wants to cherish me or humiliate me
If he wants to send happiness to my heart
And it makes the world beautiful in my eyes
This is the appreciation of God Almighty, and He is above the Great Throne
God knows what covered my chest and what he said
Oh God, I ask you, Taiz Karim, I miss him
You are generous and giving
My brother is still physically and existentially alone in my heart
When I visit him, he makes my situation with him generous
His right is greater than mine, and I cannot fulfill his right
For the duration of his absence, I cut off my letters from him
May my life and my time bring us together
And the eyes rejoice after crying
And the dark days stop oppressing its people
After the gloom, life becomes beautiful and cloudless
I would be glad to see him if he came to me in my dreams
So how about my eyes if I saw him before me
My brother, when he sits in the council, adorns him with etiquette and good manners
He has a stature and learner from the lives of the apostles
-
Lover of the book of God and the biography of his prophet
What has changed by nature is still generous
When the white flags of thanks went up
It has a white flag with a high mountain peak
And the miser who closes his door is miserly
The doors of his house are always open and no doors are closed
He meets you and greets you and you can see the fun on his face
And the smell of coffee, saffron and cardamom, coffee workers
He always honors guests as he honors himself
A decent man always has guests in his house
I remember him when a gentle western breeze comes
I called him by his name and one of my sons was named after him
I have waited and hoped that my dream would come true
Neither my uncle nor my uncle compensated me for that
And as I climbed to the top of Mt
The world narrowed down and the carefree walks beside me
Separation of a brother cuts the veins of my heart
The wound is not treated unless it is near me
I'm not with living in the world in happiness
I ask forgiveness from God if I say that death is more merciful to my condition
-
Oh God, forgive my slip and my sin
You know what's going on
Man's luck is helpless
He runs and does not catch up with bare feet
Because the world has managed him
Like the fearful when fear befalls him
Just like scattering flour with the wind
It is necessary to collect it, but the wind shakes the flour
When night comes and people enter their homes
They sleep now, but I stay up with my worries
The night is like a stingy person collecting his money in a treasury
Gather my worries hard and leave no burden but bring it
It's like I'm on coals turning on the night of the fire
Seconds became long in this darkness
He no longer walks, but something is pulling him
You have eaten me
In winter, cold flutes are heard
Blue and black clouds covered my eyes
And the wind squeezed his lightning and it disappeared
Her thunder resounded like the beating of a drum
-
And they descended the valleys and tributaries with their pebbles
A roaring water shouted noise
If I put my palms in front of me, I will not see them
My mind narrowed until I touched its tip
I'm waiting for the harbinger of dawn
However, the sky became cold and its star was clear
The ice melted and my limbs froze
Even my lips weren't able to say oh brother
The twilight color in my eyes is fading
Missed from last night
The morning came and completed what was missing from the worries of the night
And the sun at noon automatically with its warmth
My blood ran through my veins
I cried the cry of an old man who had lost his only child
At the top of a tall mountain then began to weep
My eyes looked from west to east
And differentiate between right and left
I shed tears like embers on my cheeks
I hope that, I hope it heals me
Lump in my throat and shortness of breath
And over my eyes a thick cloud covering me
-
I no longer find myself between the valleys and the mountain
And if I read the letter K, I told him the letter D
I asked for my freedom, I tasted the obvious injustice
I insisted on ordering it, and I feel sorry for her
You have redeemed freedom with soul, blood and body
I have never been lazy
But it pushes me away into alien land and over the edge
And my heart goes out to the family homes and loved ones to care for them
I want to be close to them, I want to be near them, I want to support them
And these are their songs, and I don't want to live alone
I am not an arrogant person
And I didn't run like tails like artists
But she obeys only the humiliated and submissive
And lead them without pulling the ropes
Don't take advantage and deny making it known
Deny the love of the generosity of the preferred benefactor
And if she is responsible for her prestige and money
I stood up and was aware of all the scammers
What happened to a prisoner without fault struck me, too
And whatever grievances reached his chest, you came to me
I want liberation, not a slave to the world
And the spirit frees her few lovers
Patience is patience for time and time
Men and even children cried at him as he turned gray
-
hanging from the roof of the sky
https://aqelayash.blogspot.com/search?q=%D9%8A%D8%A7%D9%85%D9%86%D8%B2%D9%84+
submitted by OkGap5167 to Chanell [link] [comments]
Oh, my beloved's wonderfully beautiful house, we found it empty
From humans, even from empty ghosts
Where did they leave and where did they go?
There is no one here
Even ask him about them except the remnants of their stuff
I stood by their hearth and the ashes of their fire
Maybe they will answer my question
But she is deaf even if she speaks to them with signs
Dumb don't speak and don't care about my condition
I turned around, towards my sweetheart's room
And water them with pure tears
Harsh does not understand the lover's words
They are like envious hearts
The soul is desperate here
around his house
I call out loud why the beloved changed his home
How do I find my soul mate?
And circuits I can't cheat on
I can't help it
I sat watching and the spectrum came waving to me
Like a mirage, I see it and it has no shadow
Shows its color and body
But I saw her braid when I took off her veil
I stood up to him and he approached me and greeted him
Hello, hello, where are you my dear
How can you leave me without a mark, my love?
You are my world and all my life
She looked at me with eyes that were gazelles
Tears fell like a string of pearls and overflowed
She said: Don't blame me for a moment
I have never paid attention to others, and the heart has no entrance to others
Be patient, may God have mercy on you
And after the distance that was between us, you will feel close to my arrival
I told her that my patience ran out and my life
What's my trick, it's been a long time to leave you?
And you're in my heart, how could you not know that?
And the fire in my heart burns and glows
My eyes do not rest for an hour at night
-
Tell me when the darkness of the night will pass
Then she looked at the Southern Star and offered him sympathy
Because he is also a lover
And I said, O Star of the South, there you are, like me
This chandelier faces north
My love also left our homes
Don't blame me, spectrum, she's my love
After her, I feel the spirit rising
He smiled sweetly about the eight pearls
They emit a glow and scatter their mirages high
And his spectrum disappeared from the moment of my eyes
He missed his imagination and got carried away a lot
I stood up to say something that crossed my mind
A dream my eyes saw or something I imagined for me
I wiped my eyes and saw nothing but those remnants of their belongings
And the dust hid under it everything they left
I cried and cried knowing that crying does not work
But crying over him sometimes lightens the burden for me
I walked with my eyes behind her whims
And the eye hopes to see it again
And every step I take, the heart wants her home
So that his house became shady, warm and cool
And if a vile or envious person passes me by, he will blame me
They said compensation or someone else's role in place of your lover
I nodded and didn't want to talk to him
until he leaves
He thinks I'm crazy
He doesn't know how much I love Sarah
She is life, soul and all my hopes
Sarah, my life and death without her
I don't care if I see her with blood on my clothes
They mentioned that she lives in the winter in the desert
The desert is very wide
From Dumat Al-Jandal to the North Mountains
From the Jordan Junction in the south to Wadi Ramadi
As for the country of Raqqa, its sun shines with heat
My dear brother: whenever I see lightning, I am happy
At Kohla I said lightning makes me happy
My dear brother: When my chest gets tired of my world
I sing in a sad voice of my fears
I'm still young, but my hair has turned white
I don't know why luck has become a sieve
Even my buddies. They started to move away from me
And when I come to them, they don't care about me
Maybe I think when their minds are petty
-
I have never been stingy. I disobey myself if you ask me to
They shorten the words of benefit so that I do not hear
Their love for my enemy became more
Solitude has become more beautiful and delicious in the wilderness
And I answered his wolf and howled over the hills
I said to him: O wolf, your voice comforts me
Come close to me, you are my friend
You left behind your loved ones and so did I
And your worries and fears have a loud voice
Our loved ones are having a good winter in this beautiful country
May they be healthy and their country fertile
When they get close, good news for you
I will give you from God's gifts of elite what I have
You and I made a vow of purity and purity
And what we wish for you is my hope
Let you play with deer and antelope
And drink water after thirst from pure water
Even your fangs are beautiful, don't eat carrion with them
And do not snipe from the weak catch
-
And what do you say about the days that reverse the trend?
Bad days, cutting chains and cables
His ribs trembled and his chest ached
His voice echoed from the countryside and hills
And the wild pigeons heard the echo of my complaint to the wolf
Then the pigeons wailed from a thin tree branch
Birds of prey fluttered to him
Even the broken winged one took pity on me
Then the birds migrated south and rose into the sky
Even the slender bird has become a migratory
They returned after about a year and then went to Russia
They want a spring and drink earthquake water
They said we saw him a year ago
This is a wolf companion in an empty nomadic wilderness
It tolerates heat and winter frosts
He only wears shabby clothes
Then the birds headed with the liver of the sky towards the star of Capricorn
After we cut my heart
Death has become with my life together
I think death is more beautiful than life
-
He did not despair of the mercy of the living God who never sleeps
He is a surety if he wants to cherish me or humiliate me
If he wants to send happiness to my heart
And it makes the world beautiful in my eyes
This is the appreciation of God Almighty, and He is above the Great Throne
God knows what covered my chest and what he said
Oh God, I ask you, Taiz Karim, I miss him
You are generous and giving
My brother is still physically and existentially alone in my heart
When I visit him, he makes my situation with him generous
His right is greater than mine, and I cannot fulfill his right
For the duration of his absence, I cut off my letters from him
May my life and my time bring us together
And the eyes rejoice after crying
And the dark days stop oppressing its people
After the gloom, life becomes beautiful and cloudless
I would be glad to see him if he came to me in my dreams
So how about my eyes if I saw him before me
My brother, when he sits in the council, adorns him with etiquette and good manners
He has a stature and learner from the lives of the apostles
-
Lover of the book of God and the biography of his prophet
What has changed by nature is still generous
When the white flags of thanks went up
It has a white flag with a high mountain peak
And the miser who closes his door is miserly
The doors of his house are always open and no doors are closed
He meets you and greets you and you can see the fun on his face
And the smell of coffee, saffron and cardamom, coffee workers
He always honors guests as he honors himself
A decent man always has guests in his house
I remember him when a gentle western breeze comes
I called him by his name and one of my sons was named after him
I have waited and hoped that my dream would come true
Neither my uncle nor my uncle compensated me for that
And as I climbed to the top of Mt
The world narrowed down and the carefree walks beside me
Separation of a brother cuts the veins of my heart
The wound is not treated unless it is near me
I'm not with living in the world in happiness
I ask forgiveness from God if I say that death is more merciful to my condition
-
Oh God, forgive my slip and my sin
You know what's going on
Man's luck is helpless
He runs and does not catch up with bare feet
Because the world has managed him
Like the fearful when fear befalls him
Just like scattering flour with the wind
It is necessary to collect it, but the wind shakes the flour
When night comes and people enter their homes
They sleep now, but I stay up with my worries
The night is like a stingy person collecting his money in a treasury
Gather my worries hard and leave no burden but bring it
It's like I'm on coals turning on the night of the fire
Seconds became long in this darkness
He no longer walks, but something is pulling him
You have eaten me
In winter, cold flutes are heard
Blue and black clouds covered my eyes
And the wind squeezed his lightning and it disappeared
Her thunder resounded like the beating of a drum
-
And they descended the valleys and tributaries with their pebbles
A roaring water shouted noise
If I put my palms in front of me, I will not see them
My mind narrowed until I touched its tip
I'm waiting for the harbinger of dawn
However, the sky became cold and its star was clear
The ice melted and my limbs froze
Even my lips weren't able to say oh brother
The twilight color in my eyes is fading
Missed from last night
The morning came and completed what was missing from the worries of the night
And the sun at noon automatically with its warmth
My blood ran through my veins
I cried the cry of an old man who had lost his only child
At the top of a tall mountain then began to weep
My eyes looked from west to east
And differentiate between right and left
I shed tears like embers on my cheeks
I hope that, I hope it heals me
Lump in my throat and shortness of breath
And over my eyes a thick cloud covering me
-
I no longer find myself between the valleys and the mountain
And if I read the letter K, I told him the letter D
I asked for my freedom, I tasted the obvious injustice
I insisted on ordering it, and I feel sorry for her
You have redeemed freedom with soul, blood and body
I have never been lazy
But it pushes me away into alien land and over the edge
And my heart goes out to the family homes and loved ones to care for them
I want to be close to them, I want to be near them, I want to support them
And these are their songs, and I don't want to live alone
I am not an arrogant person
And I didn't run like tails like artists
But she obeys only the humiliated and submissive
And lead them without pulling the ropes
Don't take advantage and deny making it known
Deny the love of the generosity of the preferred benefactor
And if she is responsible for her prestige and money
I stood up and was aware of all the scammers
What happened to a prisoner without fault struck me, too
And whatever grievances reached his chest, you came to me
I want liberation, not a slave to the world
And the spirit frees her few lovers
Patience is patience for time and time
Men and even children cried at him as he turned gray
-
hanging from the roof of the sky
https://aqelayash.blogspot.com/search?q=%D9%8A%D8%A7%D9%85%D9%86%D8%B2%D9%84+
2023.05.30 13:03 to_gain_more_good Being exploited by a court system
So I was framed for a crime. My definition of framing is different than the court’s definition of framing.I am doing court ordered therapy.
I've been advised that if I am returned to the court and speak to the judge/jury about conspiracy theories or being framed, that I will be sent back to therapy. So instead of considering any truth or validity to my claims, I am considered 'unfit' to stand trial until I've been basically reconditioned into a submissive, obedient defendant who will agree with whatever the court says.
I am being forced to attend therapy that I don't actually need. What I really need is to return to college and resume my studies but people keep finding excuses to delay my return to a normal life. I feel I am being exploited and abused. I cry on a daily basis. I can hardly get out of bed I am so depressed. I don't know what to do.
Please offer some advice.
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I've been advised that if I am returned to the court and speak to the judge/jury about conspiracy theories or being framed, that I will be sent back to therapy. So instead of considering any truth or validity to my claims, I am considered 'unfit' to stand trial until I've been basically reconditioned into a submissive, obedient defendant who will agree with whatever the court says.
I am being forced to attend therapy that I don't actually need. What I really need is to return to college and resume my studies but people keep finding excuses to delay my return to a normal life. I feel I am being exploited and abused. I cry on a daily basis. I can hardly get out of bed I am so depressed. I don't know what to do.
Please offer some advice.
2023.05.30 13:03 carbonara_s02 Where to buy glassware and lab supplies in Europe?
Hi! I'm a chemistry student from Italy and I'm starting to put together a home lab, do you know where I can get some glassware?
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2023.05.30 13:03 a_moonchild- My Boyfriend (33M) broke up with me (31F)
Hello, I am desperate I don't know what to do. My boyfriend of 15 years broke up with me on May 1st.
Since then, I just want to die. I can't get over it at all. I cry all the time, I don't eat or sleep anymore. I am so desperate.
We still live together because we shared an apartment and the prices are so high I can't manage to find anything. So basically, we eat, sleep and live in the same apartment and in the same bed.
When I get home, he gives me a Kiss and hugs. When I cry he comforts me and gives me kisses.
Before we go to sleep he hugs me and we fall asleep like this. Sometimes we even are intimate.
I asked why he's does this and he said he still loves me and is comfortable with me, and that it's easy.
It's really confusing, he says he was not happy with me anymore and he lost himself because of the relationship but then he does this.
The next day of the breakup he had added a million girls on social media and even installed Tinder.
This weekend he told me he is leaving for two weeks for vacation and he is going with his brother and the brother's friends to the north of France. Thant means that in July I will be alone, alone.
I was NEVER alone. We got together then I was 17 and we stayed together for 15 years. I never lived alone, I went from my parents, to live with him.
I am so afraid that he finds someone else, I am desperately in love with him and I don't want him to leave. I love only him and I see and want only him.
I want to win him back but I don't know how.
Do you have any advice for me ? Please !?
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Since then, I just want to die. I can't get over it at all. I cry all the time, I don't eat or sleep anymore. I am so desperate.
We still live together because we shared an apartment and the prices are so high I can't manage to find anything. So basically, we eat, sleep and live in the same apartment and in the same bed.
When I get home, he gives me a Kiss and hugs. When I cry he comforts me and gives me kisses.
Before we go to sleep he hugs me and we fall asleep like this. Sometimes we even are intimate.
I asked why he's does this and he said he still loves me and is comfortable with me, and that it's easy.
It's really confusing, he says he was not happy with me anymore and he lost himself because of the relationship but then he does this.
The next day of the breakup he had added a million girls on social media and even installed Tinder.
This weekend he told me he is leaving for two weeks for vacation and he is going with his brother and the brother's friends to the north of France. Thant means that in July I will be alone, alone.
I was NEVER alone. We got together then I was 17 and we stayed together for 15 years. I never lived alone, I went from my parents, to live with him.
I am so afraid that he finds someone else, I am desperately in love with him and I don't want him to leave. I love only him and I see and want only him.
I want to win him back but I don't know how.
Do you have any advice for me ? Please !?
2023.05.30 13:03 FelicitySmoak_ On This Day In Michael Jackson HIStory - May 30th
 | 1970 - "The Love You Save" by the Jackson 5 enters the Billboard US Hot 100 singles chart at #45. In late June, will peak at #1 & stay there for 2 weeks submitted by FelicitySmoak_ to MichaelJackson [link] [comments] 1971 - The Jackson 5 play at the Fairgrounds Arena (now Jim Norick Arena) in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma on their 2nd national tour 1977 - The Jacksons perform “Keep On Dancing” on Numéro Un Joe Dassin taped at the Buttes-Chaumont Studios in Paris, France while on their European tour. It would air on July 2nd https://preview.redd.it/l7qs60bu1t2b1.jpg?width=583&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=6097f10de11c1eed4db5c31fd60ee1164723854d https://preview.redd.it/u8bs840v1t2b1.jpg?width=535&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9656ff295d3383c08dab4328533c5ddcc738131f 1979 - On their Destiny Tour, The Jacksons play the Jim Norick Arena in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 1987 - The Los Angeles Times reports that Michael has submitted an official bid, for an undisclosed sum, for the remains of the late John Merrick, known as the Elephant Man, from the London Hospital Medical College which has kept them since Merrick’s death in 1890. Michael's manager, Frank DiLeo, commented “Jackson has no exploitative intentions whatsoever and cares about and is concerned with the Elephant Man as a dedicated and devoted collector of art and antiques" Also adding that Michael "has a high degree of respect for the memory of Merrick" 1992 - "In The Closet" peaked at #6 during it's 5th week on the Billboard chart. It would stay in the Top 40 for 11 weeks 1997 - HIStory tour rehearsals in Bremen, Germany 2000 - Dangerous (album) is certified 7X platinum by the RIAA. https://preview.redd.it/mux66z1m1t2b1.jpg?width=200&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=534424417cb398602f1e05ad08738a2b71593424 https://preview.redd.it/d9mty4pm1t2b1.png?width=325&format=png&auto=webp&s=1e4d908b0017480477988d8cb306482571b7cf96 2000 - Michael announces that he has become a key partner & investor in HollywoodTicket.com, a promotional and marketing site that gives netizens the chance to win backstage passes to concerts & visits to film/tv show shoots. The amount he invested was not disclosed but it's understood to be in the millions 2003 - Michael attends a party at Robert Evan's house to celebrate Brett Ratner's Hillhaven Lodge: The Photo Book Pictures book launch. Brett Ratner is the director of Rush Hour. Later that same night, Michael shows up at a MTV Movie Awards post party at Ron Burkle's Beverly Hills Mansion where he meets Puff Daddy and Paris Hilton among others. https://preview.redd.it/dqatcf5r1t2b1.jpg?width=487&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=15562776b7bed38a21cb83b55196fc88f4763164 https://preview.redd.it/lcfs3asr1t2b1.jpg?width=1707&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2d44d91cf64ea078ecfc0e8d91a591feb80c49f6 https://preview.redd.it/nnogz5ls1t2b1.jpg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=34428f4ce83bf04217c4d2b4b66e880d1ce86a1d 2005 - No court today due to the Memorial Day holiday 2006 - Michael Jackson takes his kids and his nanny Grace to Tokyo Disneyland. 2007 - A collection of almost 2000 Jackson family items dating from the mid-1960's to the early '90's goes to auction in the Hard Rock Cafe in Las Vegas. These are items from a storage warehouse that Henry Vaccaro came in to possession of after a failed business venture ended up in bankruptcy court. Items include Michael's gold record for Thriller, handwritten "ABC" lyrics & a signed Victory tour program 2013 - Jackson v AEG Trial Day 20 Katherine and Rebbie Jackson are in court. The court also heard an update on efforts to get emails and any other records from a computer used by Michael's former manager, Frank Dileo. Apparently an LA attorney has a copy of Dileo's computer hard drive. Attorneys are working to get a copy of the HD to both sides. The copy was revealed during a deposition of Dileo's widow earlier this week in Pennsylvania, plaintiff's attorney Brian Panish said Paul Gongaware Testimony Jackson direct Gongaware said he met with his attorneys again yesterday to refresh his recollection Panish asked if AEG was concerned about Mr. Jackson's health. "When he was sick we obviously had a concern," Gongaware responded. Gongaware said he understood Michael was sick from reading the chain of emails shown yesterday. But Gongaware told the jury he didn't have any particular concern about Michael Jackson other than on June 19th, no one told Gongaware about being concerned with his health. Gongaware testified that he disagreed with Houghdahl's opinion, saying he had no "particular concern" about Jackson's health and ability to perform Talking about the email Hougdahl sent saying Michael was deteriorating quickly, Gongaware explained: "I didn't see it the way he saw." Hougdahl, in response to concerns expressed by Travis Payne about Jackson's weight Email 6/15/09 from Hougdahl to Gongaware : He needs some cheeseburgers with a bunch of Wisconsin cheesehead bowlers and a couple of brats and beers"Was he joking around about this situation?" Panish asked Gongaware, referring to Hougdahl. "I think he was," Gongaware replied. "Did you think that was funny?" Panish asked. "I did," Gongaware admitted Panish asked about indemnity in Gongaware's contract. The exec said indemnity means that someone else is taking on the responsibility. "I haven't read my contract in 12/13 years, I don't know what it says," Gongaware said. Gongaware said he does not know how many pages his employment agreement is. Panish asked if he AEG would cover for Gongaware should they be found guilty. Gongaware said it was his understanding that he wouldn't be personally responsible financially if the jury sided with Jackson family. Panish: "That means if you did something wrong..."Adding that depending upon the size of the judgment, AEG could go after him. Panish asked how much AEG would be able to afford, and Gongaware said he didn't know. Panish emphasized there are various ways for AEG to pay a judgment, and Gongaware mentioned they had some sort of cancellation insurance. Panish went back to discuss the email from Randy Phillips where he wrote 'Dr. Murray didn't need the gig and was unbiased and ethical' Panish: "Is Mr. Phillips unbiased and ethical, sir?"Panish asked if it was ethical for Phillips to represent to Ortega that the doctor is 'extremely successful' and 'we checked everyone out'. Gongaware responded that he didn't know what Phillips knew at the time. Panish: "Is number one priority 'the show must go on'?"Panish showed the email from John Branca, saying he had the right therapist for Michael and asked if substance abuse was involved. "This is referring to the meeting that was going to happen and I was waiting to see the results of it," Gongaware said. "I didn't believe there was a substance abuse issue," Gongaware testified. "In the entire time I was dealing with him in this tour, I saw it once when he came back from his doctor," Gongaware testified. Gongaware said that was the only time he saw Michael with slurred speech and under the influence of something. Gongaware said he didn't know what Dr. Klein was giving Michael Jackson. When Panish asked Gongaware if he checked Dr. Klein out, he replied: "No, he was Michael's doctor and it was none of my business." Gongaware said he once observed Michael looking "slow" and possibly intoxicated after a visit to his dermatologist but he didn't believe he had any "serious health problems" even after Jackson appeared weak and disoriented at a June 19 rehearsal. "My observation of Michael Jackson was that he was healthy," Gongaware said. "They had a meeting to discuss (the June 19 incident), and he took a couple days off and he came back strong" As to insurance issues, Gongaware said he was involved only peripherally. On June 25, Gongaware sent an email saying that if they didn't get sickness coverage in the insurance, they would be dropping the policy. Gongaware said he didn't know why he was pressing for sickness insurance on the day Michael died. Bob Taylor, the insurance broker, wrote back that it was always down to the medical issued from the word go. Regarding Randy Phillips asking for life insurance the day Michael died, Gongaware said he didn't pay much attention to insurance, didn't recall. The day Michael died, Gongaware said Phillips called him and told him to get over to the house right away, there seems to be a problem. Randy followed the ambulance to UCLA. "The second call was that he informed me that he had died," Gongaware remembered. On June 25, Gongaware said he went to the rehearsal at the Staples Center and talked to Kenny Ortega. Panish: "Were you sad Mr. Jackson died?""He was a business associate", Gongaware said about Michael. They did not didn't hang out as friends Panish asked about Phillips' email directing Gongaware to remove thin, skeletal footage of Michael in the red jacket from This Is It documentary. Gongaware testified that he remembered receiving the email. In his deposition played in court, Gongaware said he didn't recall the email. Panish: "Did you change your testimony?"AEG Live president and co-chief executive Randy Phillips wrote in Aug. 9 email: Make sure we take out the shots of Michael in that red leather jacket at the sound stage where the mini-movies were being filmed. He looks way too think (sic) and skeletalGongaware replied to Phillips, his boss: ok will have a look when it comes on screenGongaware said he didn't try to control any of the messages about Michael after his death to reflect he was fully engaged in rehearsals. Panish asked about an email from Gongaware okay'ing the band, singers and dancer to give interviews but asked them to keep it positive In another email July 9, 2009, email to music coordinator JoAnn Tominaga, Gongaware wrote: We are ok with the band, singers and dancers doing interviews now. The only thing we ask is that they keep it positive and stress that Michael was active, engaged and not the emaciated person some want to paint him as being.Answering questions from Jackson family attorney Brian Panish, Gongaware said he was not trying to control the film's message. Panish: "You're telling them what not to say, aren't you sir?"Gongaware's testimony again emphasized the contrast between the answers he gave during his deposition under oath in December 2012 and his responses in the courtroom. In testimony, he agreed that Phillips meant "thin" in his email, instead of the word he typed, 'think'. Asked during the deposition what Phillips meant, he replied, "I don't know what he meant" Gongaware said nothing was taken out of the documentary, which included rehearsals for the scheduled 50 concerts in London. Gongaware promised in a follow-up email to Phillips that he'd "have a look," but he testified that he never dumped any footage. "We didn't keep anything out based on what Randy wrote," Gogaware told jurors. Gongaware testified that he did not know why Phillips would ask that. Gongaware said there were 15,000 tickets per show, $1.5 million in tickets per show, $47 million for all 31 shows. Tickets were selling at lightening fast, Gongaware said. "As fast as the system can sell.". The tickets were sold in March, Gongaware said. It was held by the arena, AEG had control of the money. Gongaware said merchandising was another way of making money. The building, which is owned by AEG, would keep the revenue of beverage sold. Gongaware said the beverage money would offset the arena rent, which Michael would not have to pay. Gongaware: "His (MJ) potential was great"Before lunch, Panish asked Gongaware whether This Is It was intended to be a multi-city tour. Gongaware said no, it was just going to be the 50 shows at London's O2 arena. "The only thing we knew was 50 shows in London. Michael had not agreed to anything else," Gongaware explained Panish asked Gongaware by the time the show was sold out, how many people were in the queue to buy tickets. "250,000 people were still in the queue, which would be enough to sell another 50 shows," Gongaware answered. During Murray's trial, Gongaware testified that 250k people still wanted tickets. He told that jury This Is It would be a multi-city tour. Panish: "Did you tell the truth when you testified in this case, sir?"Panish then concluded his questioning of Gongaware. AEG cross AEG's attorney, Marvin Putnam, did the questioning of Gongaware on behalf of the defendants. Putnam: "Have you ever been sued personally for the wrongful death of anyone?"Putnam asked about Gongaware's memory and he said it's okay Putnam asked Gongaware about some of the emails shown to jurors yesterday. Putnam was trying to show that not all the contents of the emails had been shown to jury. Some email addresses had been redacted. Attorney Brian Panish objected to the redactions, and got testy with the judge. It prompted another lengthy sidebar. When attorneys returned from the judge's chambers, Putnam resumed questioning Gongaware about emails sent to his private account Putnam said Gongaware handed over more than 13,000 emails in discovery from the This Is It period Putnam inquired about Gongaware's Kazoodi personal email account. On 6/20/09, the chain of emails with "Trouble at the Front" was sent there. Gongaware said he didn't remember receiving this email. Gongaware said he had more than one "Kazoodi" email account. He said he was not using the account the email was sent to on 6/20. "The account was closed at the time." Putnam presented Gongaware a document that indicated the private email account had been closed at the time. Gongaware said he never denied it was sent. Gongaware claimed yesterday was the first time he saw this chain of emails. Putnam used the closed email account to try to show Gongaware's testimony was truthful Putnam: "Why could you not recall e-mails?"Some of the e-mails were new to him because he was so busy putting Jackson's tour together that he never read them, he said. Gongaware said he was receiving hundreds of email a day at the height of 2008/09 tour preparation. "Mostly, it was just a time factor if it was something that didn't have to do with me" Gongaware said he doesn't have an office at AEG, and that he works on his own projects. He has an office at his house. Gongaware is the Co-CEO of AEG Live Concerts West with John Meglen. He said he was the co-founder of the company. Phillips is AEG Live CEO Gongaware explained be has been testifying about what he could recall. If he didn't remember, he said he told the jury he couldn't recall. Gongaware testified he looked at the emails after his deposition because he wanted to put everything together and see the bigger picture. Putnam: "Did you try to give your best testimony?" Gongaware: "Yes, I did" Regarding the phone call between Gongaware and Dr. Murray where the doctor asked about $5 million, Gongaware said he remembers that call. The next call between the two, it was the $150,000 call, where Gongaware offered the doctor $150k. Gongaware said those were the only two calls he had with Dr. Murray Gongaware said the 1st time he met Dr. Murray was a meeting at Michael's Carolwood house. He said MJ, Kenny, Randy, Frank & Dr Murray were present. Gongaware recalled the other meeting with Dr. Murray was an encounter with him at The Forum. He remembers saying hello to him. Gongaware said he's sure he didn't meet with Dr. Murray other than on those two occasions Gongaware said he promoted couple of shows/dances in college. He graduated in '69 from Waynesboro College in Pennsylvania in Accounting. He worked for Arthur Andersen in NYC after college as auditor. He said one needed two years of experience in order to get CPA license.The company ended up shutting down after being involved in the Enron scandal, Gongaware explained. He said there's a continuing education requirement in order to maintain his CPA license, but he hasn't kept current. "I didn't like that work," Gongaware said about leaving the practice. "I wanted to do things and not just be an accountant." Gongaware said he ski bummed for a winter and would do bookkeeping to pay for his lodge. His first big show was in Colorado -- he got The Grateful Dead to perform at Folsom Field in Boulder, Colo. He said he didn't know the band or any of its managers, but asked them to come to Colorado. They did, and the show was a hit. "The concert was sold out", Gongaware said, and he became an independent promoter. Around 1975, he met Terry Bassett who worked at Concerts West and Gongaware went to work for them in their Seattle office. He worked for them for about 10 years. Gongaware said he went to work for the company because the money was steady. At Concerts West, Gongaware worked with Bad Company, Led Zeppelin, Beach Boys, Chicago, Eric Clapton, among others. This Concerts West is not the same; he is the currently the co-CEO. Gongaware left Seattle and came to LA to work at Concerts West. He then went to Warner Miller Films. The company did primarily ski movies. Jerry Weintraub was Elvis' promoter and Concerts West assigned him to work with Colonel Parker, Elvis' manager. Gongaware was in his 20s when he worked with Elvis. He said when they'd announce an Elvis concert, there would be lines at the box office for 4 days. Gongaware said Colonel would buy ads on every radio station and promote the show. When tickets went on sale, Gongaware was to report to Colonel every hour regarding the ticket sales. Elvis Presley's death became a controversy at this trial as the man (Gongaware) who promoted both artists' last tours testified. He testified yesterday that Presley died of a drug overdose, but when his own lawyer questioned him today he changed his testimony to say Elvis died of a heart ailment. Presley collapsed in the bathroom of his Memphis, Tennessee, mansion, Graceland, on August 16, 1977, at the age of 42. While his death was ruled the result of an irregular heartbeat, the autopsy report was sealed amid accusations that abuse of prescription drugs caused the problem.How Presley died is relevant because Jackson lawyers argue Gongaware's experience as Elvis's promoter should have made him more aware of drug abuse by artists, including Michael Jackson. Although he worked advance promotion on Elvis Presley's last tours -- under the direction of Presley manager Colonel Tom Parker -- Gongaware testified he never met Presley. Putnam:"Did you understand he had a problem with drugs?"Around 1992, Gongaware went to work on the Dangerous tour with Michael. This was his first time working with Michael Jackson. He worked with the Jacksons in 2000 but he remembered working on a tour with the Jacksons prior to 92 and said Michael was part of the group. "I was the tour manager, handled the logistics and travel for the B party," Gongaware said, adding he worked for Michael but not for A party.
Putnam: "Were there any doctors in that tour?"Gongaware said Dr. Forecast was Michael's personal doctor. He didn't think Dr. Forecast treated anyone else, so they had Dr. Finkelstein also. Dr. Finkelstein, a general practitioner, was in the B party. They went to places where they didn't know the quality of local healthcare. Gongaware explained Dr. Finkelstein treated B, C and D parties. Gongaware said he did not see any doctor treat Michael. Dr. Finkelstein told Gongaware he treated Michael twice. Dr. Forecast wasn't in Bangkok yet, so Dr. Finkelstein treated him when he needed. "The King of Thailand said Michael would have to do the second show because his friends were attending", Gongaware recalled.Gongaware said the King put armed guards outside their doors to make sure they didn't leave Putnam: "During the Dangerous tour, had you come to have an understating that Michael had a problem with drugs or painkillers?"Gongaware said. He learned it had to do with drug addiction because Michael announced it. Putnam played the audio with Michael's statement: "My friends and doctors advised me to seek professional guidance immediately in order to eliminate what has become an addition. It is time for me to acknowledge my need for treatment"On Jun 25, 2009 Gabriel Sutter (a tech guy) wrote Gongaware a condolences email. "It was such an incredible shock to go through that experience," Gongaware explained. Gongaware's response on July 5, 2009: I was working on the Elvis tour when he died so I kind of knew what to expect"You have all these people out of work," Gongaware explained. "With Elvis some were without jobs permanently." Under questioning from Putnam, Gongaware said he didn't mean that he expected Jackson to die like Elvis. He was referring to the trauma of people losing their jobs because a tour is canceled and the estate taking over the legacy, he said. Putnam: "When you wrote the email, did you expect Michael to die?"Here's what Gongaware had to say about the role of the estate after Elvis died (and what he expected after Jackson's death.): "Then the estate takes over, and everything's different. You have nothing to say about anything"When one of his friends asked about his plans after Michael's death, Gongaware replied he was "trying to recover our losses from the show" "Michael died of overdose of Propofol. He didn't die of being sick or malnutrition", Gongaware said. He said that he had no idea of what Propofol was. "I had no idea" Jackson was using propofol in the weeks before his death, Gongaware testified Gongaware said he worked on Michael's memorial service. He was in charge of the tickets and worked closely with the family. He said he didn't charge for his work. Putnam: "Why did you work at the memorial service?"Court Transcript 2017 - Michael Jackson: Searching For Neverland, starring Navi as Michael, premieres on the Lifetime channel in the US |
2023.05.30 13:03 GuyAwks Quiet Quitting
Quiet quitting is what they were calling it.
A millennial phenomenon circulated on the Internet where fed up employees decided to stop giving their all with jobs. Instead, they’d start only doing the barest of bare minimums. After all, it’s not a fireable offense to do only what your job entails, right?
I started at this company young and optimistic and, just two years later, it had thoroughly sucked the joy out of me. Shyster & Twist was your typical corporate law firm with oversold perks and undersold hours. They’d chewed me up and I was just waiting for the company to spit me out.
I’d long since thought about printing off my two weeks notice, marching into the office and shoving it under my jerk boss’ condescending face. But then I’d be jobless and broke.
So, I went for it and “quiet” quit. No coming in early or leaving the office late. No more going out of my way to make conversation with coworkers in the lift. No cleaning my workspace or restocking the office supplies for everyone. No more emoticons in emails to coworkers. And absolutely no after-work socializing.
I could already feel my peace and sanity flooding back as all the free time and emotional investment I’d sunk into this soulless job were returned to me.
Yet just as soon as I’d gained it, I started to lose it again.
I’d expected more pushback to quiet-quitting. But, for whatever reason, no one noticed. Then I started to notice people struggling to hear me, then outright missing that I was talking. They’d shut doors on me, brush past me in the hall, set their things down right where I was sitting. I went from thinking I had the rudest colleagues ever to being convinced something stranger was happening.
That’s about the time my body became translucent.
No matter how loud I screamed, no one could hear, see or touch me. I’d stopped trying so I could have a social life, yet ironically now I didn’t have a life at all. I’d dissolved into a wisp of a person, less than a phantom. Sitting in my empty cubicle for months, I went through all the stages of despair. Confusion, denial, despair, anger. And finally acceptance.
On this Monday, no one notices as I, the office poltergeist, lock the exits, disabled the elevator, unhooked the smoke alarms, gathered the scrap papers from around the office into a pile, and set it alight with a broken computer plugboard.
I hear them all start to scream in panic, scrambling over their cubicles and each other to get out, stampeding over their precious projects and reports discarded on the floor. Everybody here ought to be “fired”.
Quiet quitting was fun but it didn’t really work out for my career trajectory.
I think it’s time I try loud quitting instead.
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A millennial phenomenon circulated on the Internet where fed up employees decided to stop giving their all with jobs. Instead, they’d start only doing the barest of bare minimums. After all, it’s not a fireable offense to do only what your job entails, right?
I started at this company young and optimistic and, just two years later, it had thoroughly sucked the joy out of me. Shyster & Twist was your typical corporate law firm with oversold perks and undersold hours. They’d chewed me up and I was just waiting for the company to spit me out.
I’d long since thought about printing off my two weeks notice, marching into the office and shoving it under my jerk boss’ condescending face. But then I’d be jobless and broke.
So, I went for it and “quiet” quit. No coming in early or leaving the office late. No more going out of my way to make conversation with coworkers in the lift. No cleaning my workspace or restocking the office supplies for everyone. No more emoticons in emails to coworkers. And absolutely no after-work socializing.
I could already feel my peace and sanity flooding back as all the free time and emotional investment I’d sunk into this soulless job were returned to me.
Yet just as soon as I’d gained it, I started to lose it again.
I’d expected more pushback to quiet-quitting. But, for whatever reason, no one noticed. Then I started to notice people struggling to hear me, then outright missing that I was talking. They’d shut doors on me, brush past me in the hall, set their things down right where I was sitting. I went from thinking I had the rudest colleagues ever to being convinced something stranger was happening.
That’s about the time my body became translucent.
No matter how loud I screamed, no one could hear, see or touch me. I’d stopped trying so I could have a social life, yet ironically now I didn’t have a life at all. I’d dissolved into a wisp of a person, less than a phantom. Sitting in my empty cubicle for months, I went through all the stages of despair. Confusion, denial, despair, anger. And finally acceptance.
On this Monday, no one notices as I, the office poltergeist, lock the exits, disabled the elevator, unhooked the smoke alarms, gathered the scrap papers from around the office into a pile, and set it alight with a broken computer plugboard.
I hear them all start to scream in panic, scrambling over their cubicles and each other to get out, stampeding over their precious projects and reports discarded on the floor. Everybody here ought to be “fired”.
Quiet quitting was fun but it didn’t really work out for my career trajectory.
I think it’s time I try loud quitting instead.
2023.05.30 13:03 FutureisBright23 therapy
i’m sorry to ask something that i see been asked multiple times throughout the week but is there really a high chance of getting DQ’d just because you been to therapy for depression n anxiety ? i’ve went for maybe a month or less when i was 16 and was prescribed meds that u stopped taking. i also believe i said i was suicidal. there’s nothing i can do to help my case and get on despite all this ?
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2023.05.30 13:02 Der_Sauresgeber For the people saying the game is fun but the community is too toxic
"If a system is corrupt, then the people who adhere to the system and are incentivized by that system are not criminals. They are victims, and the system itself must be tried."
The community is just as toxic as Blizzard and the game developers wants it to be. If they saw toxicity as a huge problem, they would have done more to prevent it.
Part of fixing your community is fixing your game.
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The community is just as toxic as Blizzard and the game developers wants it to be. If they saw toxicity as a huge problem, they would have done more to prevent it.
- People get rarely punished even after being reported multiple times for racism, misogyny, homophobia, or abelism in the text or voice chat.
- The endorsement system does nothing.
- Hiding the career profiles doesn't prevent toxicity, but it sure as hell prevents being able to spot cheaters and smurfs.
- The intransparent ranked system and busted match-making will lead to low-quality matches. A top 500 smurf in your gold game will frustrate at least five people. A gold player in a masters match will frustrate at least four people. Frustration plays a huge role in toxic behavior.
Part of fixing your community is fixing your game.
2023.05.30 13:02 Salty-Excitement-799 Why did it work opposite for me...
Not to generalise but like a lot of people on here find a lot of meaning in queelesbian relationships and just generally gay people. I have found to be compatible with heterosexual men? Like my bestfriend is just so patient and calm with me and he just actually gives it to me straight, while all my girl friends just left me deadass because I was acting in ways. It just seems fake with girls/gay people. All my gay friends left me dead in the ass when I tried to reach out to them. I understand that they have mental issues/dysfunctional households too but it's not like men don't. +It wasn't like I was actively looking to become codependent on them / just have fun and rely on them for shock value/grandiosity. I was willing to work for it and they left me. Not like all men are cool either though, another guy I was talking to was just absurdly hurtful towards me and thought he was doing something by giving it to me "straight"..lol haha get it? Like, he was just so harsh towards me.
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2023.05.30 13:02 OkGap5167 hanging from the roof of the sky
Oh, my beloved's wonderfully beautiful house, we found it empty
From humans, even from empty ghosts
Where did they leave and where did they go?
There is no one here
Even ask him about them except the remnants of their stuff
I stood by their hearth and the ashes of their fire
Maybe they will answer my question
But she is deaf even if she speaks to them with signs
Dumb don't speak and don't care about my condition
I turned around, towards my sweetheart's room
And water them with pure tears
Harsh does not understand the lover's words
They are like envious hearts
The soul is desperate here
around his house
I call out loud why the beloved changed his home
How do I find my soul mate?
And circuits I can't cheat on
I can't help it
I sat watching and the spectrum came waving to me
Like a mirage, I see it and it has no shadow
Shows its color and body
But I saw her braid when I took off her veil
I stood up to him and he approached me and greeted him
Hello, hello, where are you my dear
How can you leave me without a mark, my love?
You are my world and all my life
She looked at me with eyes that were gazelles
Tears fell like a string of pearls and overflowed
She said: Don't blame me for a moment
I have never paid attention to others, and the heart has no entrance to others
Be patient, may God have mercy on you
And after the distance that was between us, you will feel close to my arrival
I told her that my patience ran out and my life
What's my trick, it's been a long time to leave you?
And you're in my heart, how could you not know that?
And the fire in my heart burns and glows
My eyes do not rest for an hour at night
-
Tell me when the darkness of the night will pass
Then she looked at the Southern Star and offered him sympathy
Because he is also a lover
And I said, O Star of the South, there you are, like me
This chandelier faces north
My love also left our homes
Don't blame me, spectrum, she's my love
After her, I feel the spirit rising
He smiled sweetly about the eight pearls
They emit a glow and scatter their mirages high
And his spectrum disappeared from the moment of my eyes
He missed his imagination and got carried away a lot
I stood up to say something that crossed my mind
A dream my eyes saw or something I imagined for me
I wiped my eyes and saw nothing but those remnants of their belongings
And the dust hid under it everything they left
I cried and cried knowing that crying does not work
But crying over him sometimes lightens the burden for me
I walked with my eyes behind her whims
And the eye hopes to see it again
And every step I take, the heart wants her home
So that his house became shady, warm and cool
And if a vile or envious person passes me by, he will blame me
They said compensation or someone else's role in place of your lover
I nodded and didn't want to talk to him
until he leaves
He thinks I'm crazy
He doesn't know how much I love Sarah
She is life, soul and all my hopes
Sarah, my life and death without her
I don't care if I see her with blood on my clothes
They mentioned that she lives in the winter in the desert
The desert is very wide
From Dumat Al-Jandal to the North Mountains
From the Jordan Junction in the south to Wadi Ramadi
As for the country of Raqqa, its sun shines with heat
My dear brother: whenever I see lightning, I am happy
At Kohla I said lightning makes me happy
My dear brother: When my chest gets tired of my world
I sing in a sad voice of my fears
I'm still young, but my hair has turned white
I don't know why luck has become a sieve
Even my buddies. They started to move away from me
And when I come to them, they don't care about me
Maybe I think when their minds are petty
-
I have never been stingy. I disobey myself if you ask me to
They shorten the words of benefit so that I do not hear
Their love for my enemy became more
Solitude has become more beautiful and delicious in the wilderness
And I answered his wolf and howled over the hills
I said to him: O wolf, your voice comforts me
Come close to me, you are my friend
You left behind your loved ones and so did I
And your worries and fears have a loud voice
Our loved ones are having a good winter in this beautiful country
May they be healthy and their country fertile
When they get close, good news for you
I will give you from God's gifts of elite what I have
You and I made a vow of purity and purity
And what we wish for you is my hope
Let you play with deer and antelope
And drink water after thirst from pure water
Even your fangs are beautiful, don't eat carrion with them
And do not snipe from the weak catch
-
And what do you say about the days that reverse the trend?
Bad days, cutting chains and cables
His ribs trembled and his chest ached
His voice echoed from the countryside and hills
And the wild pigeons heard the echo of my complaint to the wolf
Then the pigeons wailed from a thin tree branch
Birds of prey fluttered to him
Even the broken winged one took pity on me
Then the birds migrated south and rose into the sky
Even the slender bird has become a migratory
They returned after about a year and then went to Russia
They want a spring and drink earthquake water
They said we saw him a year ago
This is a wolf companion in an empty nomadic wilderness
It tolerates heat and winter frosts
He only wears shabby clothes
Then the birds headed with the liver of the sky towards the star of Capricorn
After we cut my heart
Death has become with my life together
I think death is more beautiful than life
-
He did not despair of the mercy of the living God who never sleeps
He is a surety if he wants to cherish me or humiliate me
If he wants to send happiness to my heart
And it makes the world beautiful in my eyes
This is the appreciation of God Almighty, and He is above the Great Throne
God knows what covered my chest and what he said
Oh God, I ask you, Taiz Karim, I miss him
You are generous and giving
My brother is still physically and existentially alone in my heart
When I visit him, he makes my situation with him generous
His right is greater than mine, and I cannot fulfill his right
For the duration of his absence, I cut off my letters from him
May my life and my time bring us together
And the eyes rejoice after crying
And the dark days stop oppressing its people
After the gloom, life becomes beautiful and cloudless
I would be glad to see him if he came to me in my dreams
So how about my eyes if I saw him before me
My brother, when he sits in the council, adorns him with etiquette and good manners
He has a stature and learner from the lives of the apostles
-
Lover of the book of God and the biography of his prophet
What has changed by nature is still generous
When the white flags of thanks went up
It has a white flag with a high mountain peak
And the miser who closes his door is miserly
The doors of his house are always open and no doors are closed
He meets you and greets you and you can see the fun on his face
And the smell of coffee, saffron and cardamom, coffee workers
He always honors guests as he honors himself
A decent man always has guests in his house
I remember him when a gentle western breeze comes
I called him by his name and one of my sons was named after him
I have waited and hoped that my dream would come true
Neither my uncle nor my uncle compensated me for that
And as I climbed to the top of Mt
The world narrowed down and the carefree walks beside me
Separation of a brother cuts the veins of my heart
The wound is not treated unless it is near me
I'm not with living in the world in happiness
I ask forgiveness from God if I say that death is more merciful to my condition
-
Oh God, forgive my slip and my sin
You know what's going on
Man's luck is helpless
He runs and does not catch up with bare feet
Because the world has managed him
Like the fearful when fear befalls him
Just like scattering flour with the wind
It is necessary to collect it, but the wind shakes the flour
When night comes and people enter their homes
They sleep now, but I stay up with my worries
The night is like a stingy person collecting his money in a treasury
Gather my worries hard and leave no burden but bring it
It's like I'm on coals turning on the night of the fire
Seconds became long in this darkness
He no longer walks, but something is pulling him
You have eaten me
In winter, cold flutes are heard
Blue and black clouds covered my eyes
And the wind squeezed his lightning and it disappeared
Her thunder resounded like the beating of a drum
-
And they descended the valleys and tributaries with their pebbles
A roaring water shouted noise
If I put my palms in front of me, I will not see them
My mind narrowed until I touched its tip
I'm waiting for the harbinger of dawn
However, the sky became cold and its star was clear
The ice melted and my limbs froze
Even my lips weren't able to say oh brother
The twilight color in my eyes is fading
Missed from last night
The morning came and completed what was missing from the worries of the night
And the sun at noon automatically with its warmth
My blood ran through my veins
I cried the cry of an old man who had lost his only child
At the top of a tall mountain then began to weep
My eyes looked from west to east
And differentiate between right and left
I shed tears like embers on my cheeks
I hope that, I hope it heals me
Lump in my throat and shortness of breath
And over my eyes a thick cloud covering me
-
I no longer find myself between the valleys and the mountain
And if I read the letter K, I told him the letter D
I asked for my freedom, I tasted the obvious injustice
I insisted on ordering it, and I feel sorry for her
You have redeemed freedom with soul, blood and body
I have never been lazy
But it pushes me away into alien land and over the edge
And my heart goes out to the family homes and loved ones to care for them
I want to be close to them, I want to be near them, I want to support them
And these are their songs, and I don't want to live alone
I am not an arrogant person
And I didn't run like tails like artists
But she obeys only the humiliated and submissive
And lead them without pulling the ropes
Don't take advantage and deny making it known
Deny the love of the generosity of the preferred benefactor
And if she is responsible for her prestige and money
I stood up and was aware of all the scammers
What happened to a prisoner without fault struck me, too
And whatever grievances reached his chest, you came to me
I want liberation, not a slave to the world
And the spirit frees her few lovers
Patience is patience for time and time
Men and even children cried at him as he turned gray
-
hanging from the roof of the sky
https://aqelayash.blogspot.com/search?q=%D9%8A%D8%A7%D9%85%D9%86%D8%B2%D9%84+
submitted by OkGap5167 to Sidewalksforthetired [link] [comments]
From humans, even from empty ghosts
Where did they leave and where did they go?
There is no one here
Even ask him about them except the remnants of their stuff
I stood by their hearth and the ashes of their fire
Maybe they will answer my question
But she is deaf even if she speaks to them with signs
Dumb don't speak and don't care about my condition
I turned around, towards my sweetheart's room
And water them with pure tears
Harsh does not understand the lover's words
They are like envious hearts
The soul is desperate here
around his house
I call out loud why the beloved changed his home
How do I find my soul mate?
And circuits I can't cheat on
I can't help it
I sat watching and the spectrum came waving to me
Like a mirage, I see it and it has no shadow
Shows its color and body
But I saw her braid when I took off her veil
I stood up to him and he approached me and greeted him
Hello, hello, where are you my dear
How can you leave me without a mark, my love?
You are my world and all my life
She looked at me with eyes that were gazelles
Tears fell like a string of pearls and overflowed
She said: Don't blame me for a moment
I have never paid attention to others, and the heart has no entrance to others
Be patient, may God have mercy on you
And after the distance that was between us, you will feel close to my arrival
I told her that my patience ran out and my life
What's my trick, it's been a long time to leave you?
And you're in my heart, how could you not know that?
And the fire in my heart burns and glows
My eyes do not rest for an hour at night
-
Tell me when the darkness of the night will pass
Then she looked at the Southern Star and offered him sympathy
Because he is also a lover
And I said, O Star of the South, there you are, like me
This chandelier faces north
My love also left our homes
Don't blame me, spectrum, she's my love
After her, I feel the spirit rising
He smiled sweetly about the eight pearls
They emit a glow and scatter their mirages high
And his spectrum disappeared from the moment of my eyes
He missed his imagination and got carried away a lot
I stood up to say something that crossed my mind
A dream my eyes saw or something I imagined for me
I wiped my eyes and saw nothing but those remnants of their belongings
And the dust hid under it everything they left
I cried and cried knowing that crying does not work
But crying over him sometimes lightens the burden for me
I walked with my eyes behind her whims
And the eye hopes to see it again
And every step I take, the heart wants her home
So that his house became shady, warm and cool
And if a vile or envious person passes me by, he will blame me
They said compensation or someone else's role in place of your lover
I nodded and didn't want to talk to him
until he leaves
He thinks I'm crazy
He doesn't know how much I love Sarah
She is life, soul and all my hopes
Sarah, my life and death without her
I don't care if I see her with blood on my clothes
They mentioned that she lives in the winter in the desert
The desert is very wide
From Dumat Al-Jandal to the North Mountains
From the Jordan Junction in the south to Wadi Ramadi
As for the country of Raqqa, its sun shines with heat
My dear brother: whenever I see lightning, I am happy
At Kohla I said lightning makes me happy
My dear brother: When my chest gets tired of my world
I sing in a sad voice of my fears
I'm still young, but my hair has turned white
I don't know why luck has become a sieve
Even my buddies. They started to move away from me
And when I come to them, they don't care about me
Maybe I think when their minds are petty
-
I have never been stingy. I disobey myself if you ask me to
They shorten the words of benefit so that I do not hear
Their love for my enemy became more
Solitude has become more beautiful and delicious in the wilderness
And I answered his wolf and howled over the hills
I said to him: O wolf, your voice comforts me
Come close to me, you are my friend
You left behind your loved ones and so did I
And your worries and fears have a loud voice
Our loved ones are having a good winter in this beautiful country
May they be healthy and their country fertile
When they get close, good news for you
I will give you from God's gifts of elite what I have
You and I made a vow of purity and purity
And what we wish for you is my hope
Let you play with deer and antelope
And drink water after thirst from pure water
Even your fangs are beautiful, don't eat carrion with them
And do not snipe from the weak catch
-
And what do you say about the days that reverse the trend?
Bad days, cutting chains and cables
His ribs trembled and his chest ached
His voice echoed from the countryside and hills
And the wild pigeons heard the echo of my complaint to the wolf
Then the pigeons wailed from a thin tree branch
Birds of prey fluttered to him
Even the broken winged one took pity on me
Then the birds migrated south and rose into the sky
Even the slender bird has become a migratory
They returned after about a year and then went to Russia
They want a spring and drink earthquake water
They said we saw him a year ago
This is a wolf companion in an empty nomadic wilderness
It tolerates heat and winter frosts
He only wears shabby clothes
Then the birds headed with the liver of the sky towards the star of Capricorn
After we cut my heart
Death has become with my life together
I think death is more beautiful than life
-
He did not despair of the mercy of the living God who never sleeps
He is a surety if he wants to cherish me or humiliate me
If he wants to send happiness to my heart
And it makes the world beautiful in my eyes
This is the appreciation of God Almighty, and He is above the Great Throne
God knows what covered my chest and what he said
Oh God, I ask you, Taiz Karim, I miss him
You are generous and giving
My brother is still physically and existentially alone in my heart
When I visit him, he makes my situation with him generous
His right is greater than mine, and I cannot fulfill his right
For the duration of his absence, I cut off my letters from him
May my life and my time bring us together
And the eyes rejoice after crying
And the dark days stop oppressing its people
After the gloom, life becomes beautiful and cloudless
I would be glad to see him if he came to me in my dreams
So how about my eyes if I saw him before me
My brother, when he sits in the council, adorns him with etiquette and good manners
He has a stature and learner from the lives of the apostles
-
Lover of the book of God and the biography of his prophet
What has changed by nature is still generous
When the white flags of thanks went up
It has a white flag with a high mountain peak
And the miser who closes his door is miserly
The doors of his house are always open and no doors are closed
He meets you and greets you and you can see the fun on his face
And the smell of coffee, saffron and cardamom, coffee workers
He always honors guests as he honors himself
A decent man always has guests in his house
I remember him when a gentle western breeze comes
I called him by his name and one of my sons was named after him
I have waited and hoped that my dream would come true
Neither my uncle nor my uncle compensated me for that
And as I climbed to the top of Mt
The world narrowed down and the carefree walks beside me
Separation of a brother cuts the veins of my heart
The wound is not treated unless it is near me
I'm not with living in the world in happiness
I ask forgiveness from God if I say that death is more merciful to my condition
-
Oh God, forgive my slip and my sin
You know what's going on
Man's luck is helpless
He runs and does not catch up with bare feet
Because the world has managed him
Like the fearful when fear befalls him
Just like scattering flour with the wind
It is necessary to collect it, but the wind shakes the flour
When night comes and people enter their homes
They sleep now, but I stay up with my worries
The night is like a stingy person collecting his money in a treasury
Gather my worries hard and leave no burden but bring it
It's like I'm on coals turning on the night of the fire
Seconds became long in this darkness
He no longer walks, but something is pulling him
You have eaten me
In winter, cold flutes are heard
Blue and black clouds covered my eyes
And the wind squeezed his lightning and it disappeared
Her thunder resounded like the beating of a drum
-
And they descended the valleys and tributaries with their pebbles
A roaring water shouted noise
If I put my palms in front of me, I will not see them
My mind narrowed until I touched its tip
I'm waiting for the harbinger of dawn
However, the sky became cold and its star was clear
The ice melted and my limbs froze
Even my lips weren't able to say oh brother
The twilight color in my eyes is fading
Missed from last night
The morning came and completed what was missing from the worries of the night
And the sun at noon automatically with its warmth
My blood ran through my veins
I cried the cry of an old man who had lost his only child
At the top of a tall mountain then began to weep
My eyes looked from west to east
And differentiate between right and left
I shed tears like embers on my cheeks
I hope that, I hope it heals me
Lump in my throat and shortness of breath
And over my eyes a thick cloud covering me
-
I no longer find myself between the valleys and the mountain
And if I read the letter K, I told him the letter D
I asked for my freedom, I tasted the obvious injustice
I insisted on ordering it, and I feel sorry for her
You have redeemed freedom with soul, blood and body
I have never been lazy
But it pushes me away into alien land and over the edge
And my heart goes out to the family homes and loved ones to care for them
I want to be close to them, I want to be near them, I want to support them
And these are their songs, and I don't want to live alone
I am not an arrogant person
And I didn't run like tails like artists
But she obeys only the humiliated and submissive
And lead them without pulling the ropes
Don't take advantage and deny making it known
Deny the love of the generosity of the preferred benefactor
And if she is responsible for her prestige and money
I stood up and was aware of all the scammers
What happened to a prisoner without fault struck me, too
And whatever grievances reached his chest, you came to me
I want liberation, not a slave to the world
And the spirit frees her few lovers
Patience is patience for time and time
Men and even children cried at him as he turned gray
-
hanging from the roof of the sky
https://aqelayash.blogspot.com/search?q=%D9%8A%D8%A7%D9%85%D9%86%D8%B2%D9%84+
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2023.05.30 13:02 Elwynee [EU] [PC] Hey you! Need a warm and welcoming social guild? You're always welcome at House of Onyx!
As a little introduction, we're a little social guild that loves everything Elder Scrolls! We’re here to help players find their way around Tamriel and to help Veterans find groups for end-game content and we want our guild to be a great way to make friends with Elder Scrolls in common.
Does our name sound familiar? We've been a guild since 2021 but we've since made a new guild in-game to get started again after a break. We want to dive back into ESO with the upcoming chapter release and we're always willing to help new players and welcome experienced ones also!
We welcome all beginners as we want to create an environment where all our members would feel comfortable asking for help with any in-game content so we really encourage everyone to ask for help when they need it! We have a great guild house in Moon-Sugar Meadow that all are more than welcome to use it and bring your friends to our very own Onyx Inn!
Our guild house has:
If you do decide to join us, please change your Discord Nickname to your UserID and introduce yourself on join in #welcome. PLEASE ENSURE YOU PLAY ON PC EU BEFORE JOINING! (only bold and caps to avoid misreading the title lol) 😂
The Alfiq urges you to ensure that you play on PC EU!
Join our Discord below;
https://discord.gg/SnAat6xJFe
We can't wait to see you all there!
Elwynee and BadPaintings xx
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As a little introduction, we're a little social guild that loves everything Elder Scrolls! We’re here to help players find their way around Tamriel and to help Veterans find groups for end-game content and we want our guild to be a great way to make friends with Elder Scrolls in common.
Does our name sound familiar? We've been a guild since 2021 but we've since made a new guild in-game to get started again after a break. We want to dive back into ESO with the upcoming chapter release and we're always willing to help new players and welcome experienced ones also!
We welcome all beginners as we want to create an environment where all our members would feel comfortable asking for help with any in-game content so we really encourage everyone to ask for help when they need it! We have a great guild house in Moon-Sugar Meadow that all are more than welcome to use it and bring your friends to our very own Onyx Inn!
Our guild house has:
- All crafting stations
- Transmute Station
- Outfit Station
- Banker and Merchant Stall
- Trial Dummy and Aetherial Well
- All Mundus Stones
- Vampire Station
- The Onyx Tavern!
- Farmageddon (Overland Content),
- Daily Questing Events,
- Achievement Nights,
- Discord Trivia Night,
- Guild Lottery,
- Vet Achievement Runs (Progression),
- Random Game Nights,
- Monthly puzzle challenges, and more!
If you do decide to join us, please change your Discord Nickname to your UserID and introduce yourself on join in #welcome. PLEASE ENSURE YOU PLAY ON PC EU BEFORE JOINING! (only bold and caps to avoid misreading the title lol) 😂
The Alfiq urges you to ensure that you play on PC EU!
Join our Discord below;
https://discord.gg/SnAat6xJFe
We can't wait to see you all there!
Elwynee and BadPaintings xx
2023.05.30 13:01 h4n4he1155end how to improve self esteem?
hey lovely people!
i wanted to post here in hopes of getting some tips on working towards improving self esteem.
i feel that, as women, we are constantly pitted against each other and almost forced into this invisible ‘competition’ of being the most attractive. i’ve found this hugely affecting me recently and it’s making my outlook on life really miserable. it’s also begun to affect my relationship so i am in desperate need of some ways i can mend my relationship with myself.
i don’t use instagram any more because i have found that its one of the main contributors of my insecurities and am actively trying not to compare myself to other women.
i’m wondering if any of you have some tips or little things you do that help you feel confident- no matter how small or big of an action it is. i’d really appreciate some insight into what can maybe make me feel better when i am so discouraged by my insecurities!
i thought this might be a good sub to ask this on as i always feel safe here and i’ve found the community so supportive :)
any ideas are welcome!
have a good day y’all
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i wanted to post here in hopes of getting some tips on working towards improving self esteem.
i feel that, as women, we are constantly pitted against each other and almost forced into this invisible ‘competition’ of being the most attractive. i’ve found this hugely affecting me recently and it’s making my outlook on life really miserable. it’s also begun to affect my relationship so i am in desperate need of some ways i can mend my relationship with myself.
i don’t use instagram any more because i have found that its one of the main contributors of my insecurities and am actively trying not to compare myself to other women.
i’m wondering if any of you have some tips or little things you do that help you feel confident- no matter how small or big of an action it is. i’d really appreciate some insight into what can maybe make me feel better when i am so discouraged by my insecurities!
i thought this might be a good sub to ask this on as i always feel safe here and i’ve found the community so supportive :)
any ideas are welcome!
have a good day y’all
2023.05.30 13:01 phosloopilloo Should I build a CV for mba interviews by doing internships or learning skills or just focus on CAT prep completely for now? I just started preparation today.
qualifications 10th 85% 12th 95% PCB My cv is non existent
I just started 5th semester in college. My degree is BA(commerce + economics) in a DU college. I am 22 years old because I graduated 12th in 2019. I gave Neet in 2019 and 2020 got decent marks but not good enough for a government college (550 and 590) then I felt really defeated so I didn’t do anything for the rest of 2020 then I joined a call centre night shift job at the start of 2021 and worked there for 7 months until college admissions started again and then I joined DU in 2021. I had no ambition initially i thought I’d just get my degree and go back to work at a call centre but now things have changed and I want to do something with my life. I will probably graduate with a qualification cgpa of around 7.5. I still have a year left along with a 2 month long summer vacation so I can definitely do 4-5 maybe even more internships and prepare for CAT 24. I want to do an MBA in marketing.
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I just started 5th semester in college. My degree is BA(commerce + economics) in a DU college. I am 22 years old because I graduated 12th in 2019. I gave Neet in 2019 and 2020 got decent marks but not good enough for a government college (550 and 590) then I felt really defeated so I didn’t do anything for the rest of 2020 then I joined a call centre night shift job at the start of 2021 and worked there for 7 months until college admissions started again and then I joined DU in 2021. I had no ambition initially i thought I’d just get my degree and go back to work at a call centre but now things have changed and I want to do something with my life. I will probably graduate with a qualification cgpa of around 7.5. I still have a year left along with a 2 month long summer vacation so I can definitely do 4-5 maybe even more internships and prepare for CAT 24. I want to do an MBA in marketing.
2023.05.30 13:01 DoonaldRules Not sure what to do
Hi everyone- I’m reaching out to get some unbiased advice. I’m 40 and I’m an adult figure skater. My coach is in her late 60’s but has become one of my closest and best friends. We work so well together and until recently have never fought or argued. It’s sometimes weird to toe the line of friend/coach/student, but as both of us are adults, it’s not a problem.
Recently my coach got very mad at me for something small…very small. For opening the door for her. I have assessed the situation multiple times in my head and what I have come to know about her is this:
At this point, she is definitely stuck in her ways and I’m not sure she will change (and that’s okay with me). I just have sometimes crippling social anxiety from my deployments (IED blasts resulting in traumatic brain injuries) so I will overthink the small things until I’m almost sick. I don’t want to walk on eggshells, but rather just make some small changes that will allow her to continue to feel independent while not changing my kind demeanor.
I’ll see her this evening at my lesson,but if any of you have some helpful insights, I am open to hear them. 😊🫶🏻
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Recently my coach got very mad at me for something small…very small. For opening the door for her. I have assessed the situation multiple times in my head and what I have come to know about her is this:
- She has never been married, no kids, no long term relationships. She is very happy and comfortable being alone, and although I chose a different path, this seems to work well for her. Naturally as you might guess, she is quite independent.
- She is close with her siblings and together they take turns caring for her elderly mother who has dementia, but is insistent on living alone. I know this has to put some stress on her.
- I believe she has a strong fear of getting old and what she terms “useless.” This is evident in many things, including her insisting on carrying her own bags, not having the door opened for her, etc.
- I am a giver. I was raised to be kind, help people carry things, open doors for people, etc. so these things are ingrained in my nature.
- I was in the Army, and part of that is always looking out for your “battle buddies.” A lot of the care I give to my friends came from this concept that got me through 4 tours of combat as a truck driver, so you can imagine how deeply ingrained this is into my behavior and psyche.
- When I am friends with someone- true friends, I would give them anything I could. I am used to being the “giver” in my social relationships and really enjoy doing it.
At this point, she is definitely stuck in her ways and I’m not sure she will change (and that’s okay with me). I just have sometimes crippling social anxiety from my deployments (IED blasts resulting in traumatic brain injuries) so I will overthink the small things until I’m almost sick. I don’t want to walk on eggshells, but rather just make some small changes that will allow her to continue to feel independent while not changing my kind demeanor.
I’ll see her this evening at my lesson,but if any of you have some helpful insights, I am open to hear them. 😊🫶🏻
2023.05.30 13:01 Scary_Ad_8919 My life achieved with the help of Hyuna, the funeral instructor
Hi, everyone here. My name is Home Alicia, a German woman in her 30s who currently lives in Berlin, Germany.
Even if I predicted it for just a year, my Korean husband and my precious son were next to me, but now I'm living a somewhat unusual life where everyone is waiting for me first in the sky, so I'm lonely but still trying to live a happy life.
In particular, a Korean who accidentally came to me when my Korean husband and son died at the same time, lost their purpose of life, and was about to give up everything because of the cost of my husband and son's funeral, is the last reason I live in the world now. As soon as I turned 20, I met my Korean husband on his first trip to Korea, and now he has a short life of 20 years, but he has a pure and smart appearance that is completely different from the men I have met so far, so I quickly fell in love with him.
Now, the country of Korea became more known and the wonderful appearance of Korean men was known to the world, but when I was 20 years old, there was not much information like this, so I immediately asked Jung-soo, a Korean man I met, to go out with.
Before I turned 20, I had many relationships, but Jung-soo, a Korean boyfriend, was such a wonderful person that he was different from other men who worked so hard in his work as well as his values of life, that life, and so, Jung-soo and I continued our fiery love. Jung-soo and I went on a long-distance relationship by plane between Germany and Korea for more than six years, and we were able to succeed in getting married after such a beautiful time.
However, I was so curious about Jung-soo's parents before the wedding, but I couldn't talk about her family or meet her parents in person until just before the wedding because she said that she was a bit hesitant to talk about her family.
However, I didn't care much about getting married because I thought it had nothing to do with Jung-soo and I as long as we had the same opinions, but I heard something rather surprising from Jung-soo on the very day before the wedding.
Jung-soo, who told her past, started by saying that she was from an orphanage in Korea, ended up with a surprising story that her only relative, sister, who has no parents, was also in an orphanage with her when she was young and was adopted by another foreign family.
Honestly, I was somewhat surprised, but I didn't really care what kind of family environment Jung-soo had.
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Even if I predicted it for just a year, my Korean husband and my precious son were next to me, but now I'm living a somewhat unusual life where everyone is waiting for me first in the sky, so I'm lonely but still trying to live a happy life.
In particular, a Korean who accidentally came to me when my Korean husband and son died at the same time, lost their purpose of life, and was about to give up everything because of the cost of my husband and son's funeral, is the last reason I live in the world now. As soon as I turned 20, I met my Korean husband on his first trip to Korea, and now he has a short life of 20 years, but he has a pure and smart appearance that is completely different from the men I have met so far, so I quickly fell in love with him.
Now, the country of Korea became more known and the wonderful appearance of Korean men was known to the world, but when I was 20 years old, there was not much information like this, so I immediately asked Jung-soo, a Korean man I met, to go out with.
Before I turned 20, I had many relationships, but Jung-soo, a Korean boyfriend, was such a wonderful person that he was different from other men who worked so hard in his work as well as his values of life, that life, and so, Jung-soo and I continued our fiery love. Jung-soo and I went on a long-distance relationship by plane between Germany and Korea for more than six years, and we were able to succeed in getting married after such a beautiful time.
However, I was so curious about Jung-soo's parents before the wedding, but I couldn't talk about her family or meet her parents in person until just before the wedding because she said that she was a bit hesitant to talk about her family.
However, I didn't care much about getting married because I thought it had nothing to do with Jung-soo and I as long as we had the same opinions, but I heard something rather surprising from Jung-soo on the very day before the wedding.
Jung-soo, who told her past, started by saying that she was from an orphanage in Korea, ended up with a surprising story that her only relative, sister, who has no parents, was also in an orphanage with her when she was young and was adopted by another foreign family.
Honestly, I was somewhat surprised, but I didn't really care what kind of family environment Jung-soo had.
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