Grace in la jeans bootcut

Nu m-am mutat in oras de mult timp si ma intrebam daca exista pe undeva o rampa/groapa auto unde probabil obisnuiau sa isi repare oamenii masina singuri inainte de '89. Parca mi-a zis cineva ca isi faceau oamenii si ITP-ul in felul asta. Pentru verificari, curatari, coating anti-rugina, schimb ulei cutie, in caz ca e cineva curios. Desi sunt foarte sceptic in ceea ce priveste mecanicii, daca aveti si o recomandare de service, e binevenita. Mi-ar placea o recomandare unde oamenii aia folosesc dinamometrica/ au auzit de schematice si nu fac improvizatie la reparatii.

Here's the best case scenario of how this goes, for me at least:
You can intro me to music I should be listening to, and you'll probably be nice and listen to the music I try to turn you onto once or twice.
I'll listen to you vent about your life, not as someone to tell you what to do, but as someone who's made all of the bad decisions before and isn't going to judge you for it.
You'll let me bitch about being old, and hopefully put me on and tell me I don't look that old at all.
Oh, and we're going to fuck.
And not fuck like I'm going to pump you a couple of times and roll over like your high school boyfriend did. We are going to learn each other's bodies. We are going to talk about all the dirty ideas and fantasies we have, without judgement, and even take a few for a spin. We are going to figure out what gets each other off. We are both going to cum hard, and not be able to wait to do it again. We aren't going to be afraid to acknowledge the sex is the real basis of this. And yeah, you are turned on by fucking an older married guy. And yeah, I'm turned on by fucking a hot younger girl. We are ok with being each other's little secrets, expressing our kinky desires, and sharing our dirty thoughts. We'll also laugh, smile, and enjoy each other's company along the way.
I'm 42, fairly attractive (5'8", dad bod alert), somewhat intelligent. I'm full of bad jokes and sharp wit. I love going down on a woman, and I love making them laugh and feel good about themselves. I don't take life too seriously, but I take the people in my life seriously, and don't fuck around with their feelings, boundaries, or emotions. I don't smoke cigarettes, but I do spank cute backsides. Please be in LA or close by.
If you've read this far, tell me, what is the best care scenario for what you were hoping to find on this subreddit?

As a fellow woman over 30, it has been driving me insane that the new trend in jeans is the ankle crop style. I am 5'11", so the ankle style just feels like all the highwaters I've been avoiding my whole life.
Also curious your thoughts on the trend. Are you into it? Do you hate it?
I want a solid pair of straight leg jeans that are normal length. That cover most of the top of my shoes. Please, share your wisdom with me. My mother will thank you as well <3

M (26) scrivo più per sfogo personale a dire la verità. Conosco l’anno scorso una ragazza che poi si trasferisce non lontano da casa mia per motivi lavorativi (lei è appunto fuorisede) una volta trasferitasi in città decidiamo di di uscire insieme e ne nasce una frequentazione abbastanza assidua, fatta di diversi messaggi e di una certa complicità tra i due. Lei mi piace sotto tanti aspetti ma ci sono alcuni punti, anche fisici che non mi fanno totalmente appassionare.
Devo premettere che ho avuto una adolescenza difficile in cui per non affrontare i problemi che avevo sul lato familiare e sentimentale mi sono riversato sullo studio e sul lavoro, ottenendo un ottimo lavoro con uno stipendio alto ma come tutte le cose “ho pagato” il prezzo di aver perso gli anni dei primi incontri e delle prime uscite, (con diversi anni passati in terapia) per cui ero e sono desideroso di avviare qualcosa di duraturo.
Dopo qualche uscita, lei dice che mi deve parlare dicendomi che a lei non piacciono le relazioni (sapendo che sono sempre destinate a finire) e che allo stesso tempo non prova lo stesso tipo di traporto che provava nelle sue precedenti esperienze, che le sembra tutto molto razionale ma che allo stesso tempo le dispiacerebbe finire quello che si era creato tra noi. A seguito di ciò mi da un piccolo regalo (era appena trascorso il mio compleanno) e mi manda messaggi dolci i giorni seguenti, cosa che mi lascia spiazzato dato il discorso che mi aveva fatto. Io ero dispiaciuto nel sentire ciò ma allo stesso tempo sapevo che non era un infatuazione così alta neanche dalla mia parte comunque la frequentazione continua e ci sentiamo tutti i giorni.
A partire da Gennaio lei cambia comparto a lavoro e finisce sotto un superiore più esigente e duro , conseguentemente le nostre interazioni giornaliere diminuiscono, io non mi faccio un problema perché capisco la situazione e non le faccio pesare la cosa. Addirittura lei si scusa diverse volte per messaggio se ci siamo salutati di sfuggita ,quando lei va a lavorare, dicendo che purtroppo per lei era un periodo difficile e ed tutto nuovo dato che ha cambiato lavoro da poco ma comunque rimane aperta e dolce mei kiwi confronti.
Dopo due settimane da questo episodio, (dopo 5 mesi di frequentazione) si ripropone il discorso fidanzamento ma che lei scansa per le stesse motivazioni della prima volta. Io capisco che a questo punto non ci sia molto su cui ricostruire ma ingenuamente penso che la cosa si possa aggiustare. Da li in poi dato anche il lavoro mi risponde solamente due/ massimo tre volte al giorno e quando glielo faccio notare chiedendo se ci fossero problemi e mi dice che dobbiamo parlare e termina così la nostra breve frequentazione.
Da quel episodio ho cercato di andare avanti e appunto di volare pagina (non che sia totalmente disperato ma un po’ dispiaciuto di sicuro ) facendo due viaggi, allenandomi e vedendo i lati positivi della mia vita anche se mi risulta un po’ difficile appunto non pensarci più e dedicarmi ad altre ragazze (forse anche per il fatto che faccio fatica ad approcciare se non di persona e anche perché sono un po’ difficile di mio in termini di relazioni, sebbene sia migliorato tantissimo rispetto ad anni fa). Forse mi stavo innamorando della relazione in se’ (passare del tempo insieme, condividere passatempi, uscire ecc ecc) rispetto alla persona con cui uscivo. Mi servirà da lezione e mi porto dietro gli insegnamenti di ciò anche se un po’ mi sento ferito

I think the show runners are doing us a real disservice by making Ralph Starling so unlikable. It minimizes the dynamics the show could explore. Why not make Ralph a genuine prospect? The idea that the Parker's and especially Charlotte wouldn't help him dress up IN THE SAME WAY she was helped to be dressed up -such that she physically presented as fitting into high society- giving her a chance to 'earn’ her spot with her intelligence and grace. The stark contrast of Ralph's mismatched threadbare suit against Charlotte's decadent and labor intensive appearance at the birthday party ELIMINATED any chance he had of existing comfortably within this group and made it obvious how poor of a choice he was for Charlotte. Why make her choices so black and white?
Colbourne/love/money/intellectuality vs Ralph/paupefamily obligation/dullness and illiteracy
That sets us up for a less dynamic and much more one-dimensional season. To me, it’s really disappointing. Especially because Colbourne is a already a horrible love interest for Charlotte and a pretty flat and convenient character.
I don’t want her with either man. 🤷‍♀️ Charlotte deserves better than both of them and a better end to her story than choosing between two uninspired men.

Here are the circumstances.
I live I. California. I am 27 weeks today. This has been verified by ultrasound. I have been trying to get an abortion for a few months now but there was issues regarding my BMI. I’m 5’6 or 5’7 and weigh probably 270 now. I was 248 at the start. I was turned down by some planned parenthood’s because they said that I was too overweight to be put to sleep but that I needed to be put to sleep per their policy.
Now I am terrified of being put to sleep for this procedure! I found a place in CA that I could have went to, but when I talked to them a couple weeks ago they were already booked out a few weeks which would put me past their limit.
They do offer for me to come get a shot to stop the pregnancy, but I would have to have a doctor on board to do the induction….
Does anyone know of any doctors in LA county that would do this???
I was referred to a clinic in Colorado that also turned me down today due to my BMI, and a clinic in Seattle that is saying I can go to them but idk if I can afford it even with assistance from non profits. I would also have to travel far and be put under anesthesia which is making me very nervous.
I’m getting desperate because I want to cut ties with this abusive relationship but I know it will only get worse if the baby is here I will never be able to leave him for good. I have two kids from a previous relationship and my fear is I’m going to end up trying something myself that is going to end up hurting/killing me. Please help if anyone can. My 2 kids need me. :(

Okay so I was caught up in a Misdemeanor battery charge. The only other thing on my record EVER is a DUI from 2018. Nothing else.
Although I didn't actually strike, push, or harm the other person, I initiated the fight by squaring up. I was put under citizens arrest by another bystander as he ran behind me and held me back. I dont remember which one of them put me in a chokehold and got me on the ground. Following serving jail time, I went to my court date and my public defender wanted to plea not guilty. We did and the judge assigned us due back 5 weeks later.
Following that day, I voluntarily admitted myself into a faith-based program 6 hours north of LA. Literally the very next morning, the 21st of January. I tried to appear to the next court date through Zoom, but the public defender said he would appear for me. February 27th was my court date, and on the 28th, my public defender called my director of the program. When I spoke with my defender, he didn't disclose the exact, full details of the verdict, what requirements are needed, ect. The only thing he said, was ask me if I could stay in the program at Victory Outreach and complete the one-year program. And to not carry weapons, use drugs, and to stay away from Santa Monica business district for a whole year. I said yes.
Fast forward to Marth 17th, I left the program, because I have a dual diagnosis of Drug abuse and mental health issues. It is against their policy at the Victory Outreach faith-based program to take psych meds, and I would get rebuked and told that I didn't need to get professional therapy or counseling. They'd simply reply, "you don't need that, you need Jesus". It discouraged me and demoralized me from trying. It made me feel bad about taking care of my health needs.
I immediately emailed my public defender the same day I left, explaining that I needed a program that was able to provide those services and would allow psychiatric medication if needed. I talked to the defender today through text messages. He rebuked me for leaving the program even though I couldn't get the help I needed there. He stated he didn't believe me when I explained why I left through the email. He said he was going to call the Director in charge of the program to verify. He is being very vague about my case, and said I have a week to find something else to follow compliance. He stated I 'dont get to pick and choose what program' and said that I need to go back to Victory Outreach. Then he texted another message and said the program I find must have the 'same requirements', otherwise I will fall out of compliance and have a warrant be put out for my arrest. He never mentioned how much jail time. I called him and he said he didn't have much time, so I tried to explain everything, but he interrupted and cut me off to 'cut to the chase'. Before hanging up, he wants me to have the program staff email him their curriculum of the program I find.
SOLUTION?: I'm 2 months clean and sober. I have called 20 different rehabs and IOP around my county and surrounding areas. I have used my insurance resources/referrals, and SAMSHA's resources/referrals as well. I have tried TASC but the worker said I need to be in custody to qualify (I'm not). I have done my own search in between to find a program that will accept my Medi-cal Partnership insurance, both residential and IOP. I am waiting on returning calls from two potential IOP's, and have found a regular Outpatient which starts me in 2 weeks. I had an appointment with a therapist today and had him write a letter of acknowledgment of what we discussed during the appointment, and confirming my efforts being made to find a solution.
I have not found anything else that will accept my insurance. To get into some places, I need to be a resident of the city or county, and then switch my Medi-cal to that region. At this point I feel like the public defender isnt disclosing the full details, and I could be wrong too. I don't see why I wouldnt be able to go to an Outpatient or IOP for six months to one year, as I'd be getting the help I need...my defender didn't say I could, but also didn't say I couldn't, just same "same requirements". I have a long history of mental health disorder and drug addiction proven by rehab/detoxes, overdoses, and ER visits...Any advice? :3

Hello ABTF, I got help here years ago before having babies, and now 8 years and 3 babies later I’m back to find bras that fit and accommodate my needs.
To start off, my measurements:
Loose Underbust - 36” Snug Underbust - 34” Tight Underbust - 33” Standing Bust - 43” Leaning Bust - 45” Lying Bust - 44”
Calculator Suggested Starting Size: 36G in UK sizing.
Pre-babies my best fitting bra was a Panache Natasha Balconnet in 34FF but I did end up needing an extender because the band was too tight.
I’ve gained some weight post babies, and pregnancy changed my body obviously, but I’ve also learned more about my body and received some medical diagnoses since then. One of those is Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, which is complicating matters trying to find bras. Because of my EDS, I have injuries to both of my shoulders, causing pain from shoulder straps if they’re tight. At the same time, a band that’s “tight enough” for most to take the weight off my shoulders causes issue with my ribs and Costochondritis (basically, inflammation in cartilage in my chest that feels like heart related chest pain) which is not only uncomfortable but makes self monitoring my heart condition a bit complicated because I can’t always tell if my chest pain is heart related or inflammation related. To top things off I’m also Autistic and some fabrics give me sensory issues.
Ever since early in my first pregnancy I’ve only been able to tolerate wireless bras. When I was breastfeeding my breasts were just too tender for wires no matter how well they fit, and since weaning they’ve continued to be uncomfortable for me. When nursing I lived in Cake Maternity bras that felt perfect, but I had to stop wearing them when my shoulders started having issues from the straps. I’m open to trying underwire again, if I could find something that didn’t hurt. The catch being, I can’t try things on because I live on an island with no bra stores that carry bras in larger sizes (La Senza and La Vie En Rose). I always end up having to order online. I’m also in Canada and shipping costs are brutal.
I have spent the last 3 months basically not able to wear a bra at all because of pain. With winter starting to slip away though I can’t hide under a thick winter coat forever and I miss having bras I could wear without pain. Not to mention being brakes all day contributes to back pain. I also have really wanted to find some cute lingerie and not frumpy bras.
I would really appreciate any advice anyone has for me. I’m pretty desperate for comfort, and I want to have cute bras again.

"Spirals, spirals, all around, A vortex of madness that astounds, From depths unknown they do arise, Twisting and turning 'til sanity dies.
In the darkest depths of mind and space, The spirals writhe with vile grace, A cosmic force that does compel, All who see them to a darkened hell.
In ancient books and eldritch lore, The spirals dance, forevermore, Their patterns etched in stone and bone, Whispered by cults, in tongues unknown.
Through time and space, they do expand, A force beyond mortal command, And those who dare to seek their gaze, Are lost forever in their maze.
The spiral's pull is ever strong, A siren's call, a mournful song, A descent into the abyss, Where madness reigns and terror is.
Oh, spirals, spirals, all around, A vortex of horror that astounds, In Poe and Lovecraft's tales of dread, Their power looms, a haunting thread.
And though we fear their twisting might, We cannot help but seek the sight, Of spirals, spirals, evermore, A haunting symbol we can't ignore."
Man we live in creepy times, I asked chatGPT "merge the styles of HP Lovecraft and Edgar allen Poe to make poem about spirals" is what I wrote and this has to be my favorite chatGPT poem so far.
Sadly paraphrasing as history function seems borked and i dont remmber my exact wording,...the part where it mentions poe and lovecraft was a bit eh but god damn I liked this one :D Quite obivously spirals was chosen from Uzumaki.
Personally I like this crossover episode! :D

3 months ago i found out that the guy i had been seeing for 2 months was married. i was devastated. we talked a LOT, and spent a lot of time together. when i found out, i told the wife. for some context, she travels out of the country often and they spend months apart. they are more of a long distance couple at this point. they are a legit couple but got married for her green card. when i told the wife, she was very kind, thanked me for telling her but said she wanted no details as her dad was in the hospital… her dad died the next day :/ so i don’t blame her for not wanting to deal w this… he ghosted me and i never heard anything from either of them. that was around christmas . 3 months later i’m still stalking her story (i know) and i see she has forgiven him. they are together now, she posted a story saying “so happy to wake up next to this wonderful man”. Like GIRL. your man is out here in the streets! how can you say that! knowing he was lying about his life & plotting & manipulating women into sleeping w him while you’re away. Maybe she can get over it but i’m not.
one of my friends thinks i should send this:
“i’m sorry girl but idk how you can say that. He came on so strong pursuing me just for me to find out he’s married, and then ghost me. And never even say anything. If he was just looking to fuck, he shouldn’t have stayed the night (both nights), keep hanging out the next day, take me to the airport, and shower with me. It shouldn’t have to be said that all of that is misleading, and CREEPY knowing what i know now.
I think back to things he randomly said that made me wonder why he would say that. One being “yeah i need sex like once a week” and the other being “yeah i could commute to LA once a week.” These are things he said over the phone when he was calling me every night . He clearly was plotting to find some girl he could have consistent casual sex with while you’re away. For him to do everything he did for ZERO regard of how it would affect other people is absolutely psychopathic behavior. For him to go that out of his way to lie about who he is and manipulate women into sleeping with him is absolutely insane. I just want you to know none of this is directed toward you and that I completely respect you and however you chose to deal with it & the only reason I’m even saying anything is bc i was pretty hurt and shocked by the situation and I do have questions. I get if you don’t wanna respond to this either. But this whole situation was weird for me and I wish he would’ve just not tried to see me again after being confronted. “
Some friends are saying i need to let it go, others are saying i should send it. Give me some honest feedback please . I know i should move on focus on myself and let it go. but he is a PSYCHOPATH who tricked me into sleeping w him, said he wanted a relationship etc.

08:00 Wake up to my mother- er, sorry- partner telling me I have to get out of bed. Sigh. Our cat snores next to us.
08:15 Put on jeans and a shirt, contemplate eyeliner, apply eyeliner. Stunning.
08:16: Read an article in which the mother of a young man with treatment-resistant schizophrenia laments the fact antipsychotics have side effects.
08:17: If psychiatry really worked, the medication would be 100% effective, 100% of the time, she concludes.
08:25: Make coffee and grab a cereal bar for the way. When out the flat have to go back in because I’ve forgotten my stethoscope. Just be honest with yourself, I think, and leave it at home. I throw it in my bag defiantly.
08:45: There’s an ambulance and three police cars outside the hospital. 8 policemen are in full body armour to deliver a patient to our intensive care ward. The patient is texting someone on his phone.
08:55: The ward sister informs me bed 7 has vomited once, bed 9’s BMs are slightly off and could it be that she’s been having too much cake, and bed 10 is angry because we agreed to reduce his haloperidol but the drug chart dose remains the same. Bed 11 is still AWOL since last week, and may have been spotted in Norwich. Could I check in with him?
08:58 The ward sister comes into the office with a stack of drug charts. Need rewriting, sorry.
09:00 The nurse doing morning meds comes in and tells me he needs the drug charts back because he’s doing morning meds.
09:05 The patients have revolted in art therapy- one of them threw a paintbrush at the wall.
09:10 The emergency response team shows up to the ward to defuse the situation. The patient relinquishes the weapon/paintbrush.
09:11 The patient doesn’t want PRN oral lorazepam, the nurse tells me. Could he have IM? I go to see the patient, who is now asleep.
09:20 Bed 7 has vomited once more. I examine him and determine he’s fine. I ask him what he ate yesterday, he replies a few bars of Xanax.
09:45 Handover. All the patients are settled in mental state, ate and drank well, slept intermittently throughout the night and were pleasant on approach.
09:46 Except for patients in beds 1-16.
10:00 Consultant here for ward round.
10:02 Consultant has a tribunal so cannot round, asks if I can do it and discuss later.
10:05 Bed 4 has just started on clozapine, he doesn’t think he needs medication, he doesn’t think he’s ever been unwell, and if I wasn’t so stupid I would let him go. He’s a famous politician and he’s going to mobilise army troops against me. I add a mood stabiliser.
10:25 Bed 5 has just started on haloperidol, he doesn’t think he needs medication, he doesn’t think he’s ever been unwell, and if I wasn’t so stupid I would let him go. He’s a famous painter and he used to date the CEO of London Psychiatry. He’s going to get me fired. I add a mood stabiliser.
10:30: Really drawn to the idea of being fired, consider encouraging bed 5.
11:00 Bed 6 has just started on olanzapine, he doesn’t think he needs medication, he doesn’t think he’s ever been unwell, and if we weren’t so stupid we would let him go. He’s going to tell the Swedish CIA that their game isn’t working and he’s discovered their microchip. CAN YOU SEE IT, he asks. Call one of the nurses to stand next to me while I say no, I can’t. I rapidly increase olanzapine to maximum and think he will need clozapine. Then remember that he had that one spurious neutropaenia in 2006 which means the clozapine authority will need a striptease and a letter from a haematology consultant to authorise.
11:20 Bed 6’s mum is here. She is furious her son is prescribed olanzapine when he was previously on aripiprazole. She says the aripiprazole didn’t work but had a much better side effect profile.
11:30 Bed 6’s mum now crying about the cripplingly unfair nature of mental illness and how her son’s life has been taken over by schizophrenia. I try my best to deliver human warmth.
11:45 She wants to know if olanzapine is going to make her son fat. It could, I say, and she wails.
11:50 She has always admired psychologists.
12:00 Bed 1 is in seclusion and needs a review. Consultant still away- could I do the review and discuss on the phone after, call it a senior review, he wonders? But without actually calling, obviously.
12:15 The emergency response team are here. Bed 1 is naked and the whole seclusion room is smeared with poop. The Reducing Restrictive Practice nurse reprimands me when I suggest seclusion is likely to continue. Blank Slate, she says, menacingly.
12:30 Bed 1 doesn’t think he needs medication, he doesn’t think he’s ever been unwell, and if we weren’t so stupid we would let him go. I explain we’re trying to help him move out of this room into the open ward, from where discharge will be possible in future. He says that doesn’t fit in with his schedule.
12:35 Shockingly he takes his medication (valproate, risperidone, clonazepam, promethazine). That’s for you, sweetcheeks, he winks.
12:40 Reducing restrictive practice nurse asks him if he’s going to punch people again if we take him off seclusion. I’m a fucking pacifist, he replies.
12:45 Reducing restrictive practice nurse adamant above comment is a legally binding decree and seclusion should terminate. We can manage on 2:1, she states.
12:55 No one wants to do 2:1 with bed 1 because he is a poop-thrower.
13:00 Bed 1 throws poop at his 2:1. Reducing restrictive practice nurse adamant this is not a reason to initiate seclusion. I apologise to the team and advise waiting for the meds to kick in.
13:15 Pick up the afternoon bleep. Immediate bleep from the surgeons- bed 7 has schizophrenia, since today.
13:30 Bicker about whether Gladys who’s had a NOF is one of the extremely rare instances of very late onset schizophrenia. Surgeon wants to speak to my consultant. I hope she lets me know if she finds him.
13:45 The pharmacist wants me to immediately rewrite 7 drug charts.
13:50 Bleeped to a medical emergency- run; patient in status, nurses have placed an oxygen mask without connecting it to oxygen supply. They called me after a few minutes of seizing, didn’t want to bother me. I ask if the patient is known to have epilepsy. They don’t know and the ward reg is in clinic. I ask for lorazepam, and his drug chart.
13:52 Extremely surprise myself by completing an A-E assessment, delivering buccal midazolam (I am not touching the rectal diazepam) and putting in a cannula.
13:54 Where the fuck is my lorazepam?
13:55 Lorazepam given, seizure stops. Ambulance arrive. I escape with thanks.
13:56 Bump into my consultant in the Foyer, waiting for his Uber Eats. He asks me if I’ve ordered in, too.
*tbc*

I have been sewing MYOG projects off and on for a few years now and have become quite happy with the results of my efforts. Each of my projects have increased in quality, durability, and general execution (see: johnnythunder.makes on Instagram).
But, with all of that progression I still see areas of my projects that just do not match my expectations in terms of finished qualities. Seams are not perfectly straight. Zippers don't sit perfectly flush. Stitches are not perfectly even in length.
IF there's a jump between where I am and my current skillset and the professional level of gear makers and sellers I don't see where those skills come from. What tools or strategies should I be using to ensure that a single visible seam on one of my projects looks like it was made by a professional? How come all of my jeans have perfect factor construction without a single error? What are they using or doing that I am not?

Here are the circumstances.
I live I. California. I am 27 weeks today. This has been verified by ultrasound. I have been trying to get an abortion for a few months now but there was issues regarding my BMI. I’m 5’6 or 5’7 and weigh probably 270 now. I was 248 at the start. I was turned down by some planned parenthood’s because they said that I was too overweight to be put to sleep but that I needed to be put to sleep per their policy.
Now I am terrified of being put to sleep for this procedure! I found a place in CA that I could have went to, but when I talked to them a couple weeks ago they were already booked out a few weeks which would put me past their limit.
They do offer for me to come get a shot to stop the pregnancy, but I would have to have a doctor on board to do the induction….
Does anyone know of any doctors in LA county that would do this???
I was referred to a clinic in Colorado that also turned me down today due to my BMI, and a clinic in Seattle that is saying I can go to them but idk if I can afford it even with assistance from non profits. I would also have to travel far and be put under anesthesia which is making me very nervous.
I’m getting desperate because I want to cut ties with this abusive relationship but I know it will only get worse if the baby is here I will never be able to leave him for good. I have two kids from a previous relationship and my fear is I’m going to end up trying something myself that is going to end up hurting/killing me. Please help if anyone can. My 2 kids need me. :(

I always loved Henry's Cali impression during episode two. "Aww MAN now I gotta deal with THIS" and "Frances took the biggest shit...I know you don't because of the HORSE."
I relistened earlier this week aaaannnd it turns out Cali from the Kurt Cobain episodes is a known artist and ended up designing merch for Kanye West at one point. Now that the boys are in LA I wonder if they move in any of the same circles as him.
Also, he was born in BC. He goes by "Cali" but seems to be a secret Canadian.

What’s going on Reddit. I go to school in the 757 (ODU) but live on the water at Lake Gaston, so Ive only been a freshwater fisherman. I really want to start saltwater fishing around the area but don’t know any other bank fishing spots than the various piers. I went down to LA over my spring break and caught a load of red drum which really jumpstarted my want to saltwater fish. Any tips, spots, anything will be greatly appreciated!

Late 2014 27" Retina running 11.7.2 BigSur. 3TB Fusion drive. My wife says she walked in this morning and her computer said it experienced a fault and needed to restart. Since restarting it's been stuck at about 50% progress bar.
I have booted into recovery. Disk Utility would not repair with First Aid on either the disk, volumes or container, presenting the following error:

Running first aid on "Macintosh HD-Data" (disk4s1) Repairing file system. Volume was successfully unmounted. Performing fsck_apfs -y -x/dev/rdisk4s1 checking the container superblock checking the fusion superblock checking the EFI jumpstart record checking the space manager checking the space manager free queue trees warning: unable to read apfs keylocker ranges: no such file or directory checking the object map checking the fusion data structures error: btn: invalid key order (170) oid 463308 / 0xib 0 / level 1 / flags 0x4 previous key: 0x00040000012ec677 current key: 0x0004000000a1d886 next key: 0x0004000000bad609 Fusion data structures are invalid The volume /dev/rdisk4s1 could not be verified completely File system check exit code is 8 Restoring the original state found as mounted File system verify or repair failed. : (-69845) Operation failed... 

I then booted into verbose mode and ran into the "too many corpses" errors. Found the thread suggesting to rename the mbr_cache. Attempted to do this step, however I ran into the same issue that many others in the comments had where it just comes up as:

mv: rename ./mbr_cache to ./mbr_cache-old: No such file or directory 

I even "pwd" to make sure I was in the correct directory. Did an ls -la to list all files even hidden. Nothing shows up in that directory. Some comments suggested that this is because the mbr_cache needs to be created and "all you have to do now is reboot!" But rebooting still gets to 50% and stalls. Let it sit for over an hour and no progress.
Others have suggested this is because the drive isn't mounted and to go into Disk Utility and mount it, however the only option I have in Disk Utility is to Unmount, so they're obviously already mounted.
We have backups, though through poor timing of coincidences the most recent files/changes as of the day before weren't backed up. If we had to restore/reformat we'd probably be okay, but I'd really rather not go that route.
Can anyone else suggest any other tips I could try before going nuclear?

English : One question, are these commands (tricks) placed in the programmer's console within the game or are they placed in the launch parameters of the game , I just want to know if these cheats are put in the developer console within the game or in the launch parameters ?
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Spanish : una pregunta estos comandos (trucos) se ponen en la consola del programador dentro del juego o se pone en los parametros de lanzamiento del juego , solo quiero saber si se ponen estos trucos en la consola del programador dentro del juego o en los parametros de lanzamiento ?
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